Thank all of you who are praying for us. I know that God continues to work in our marriage. I am trying my best to surrender it all and trust him for his timing. I fall apart 5-6 times a day. I try not to let my kids see this, and with Gods help I can protect them from having those questions in their hearts. I am at home now with the kids. I finally got the youngest to bed. Thier mom is out with her girlfriends for the weekend. I did not ask where as the last time it sparked anger and rage on her part. She has made it clear that in her mind our marriage is over, so she doesn't have to tell me anything. She has not filed papers yet, Praise God !! and I continue to hold her up in prayer.

Tears fall as I ask God for guidance and strength. I long for our marriage to be healed and to be able to be a complete family again. I am trying not to be double minded in my prayer and ask that God would help me to have faith and trust in what his word says. His promises about marriage and that it is his will that our marriage be saved this comforts me as do all of you. For that I am greatful. It seems that my wife is softening her stance toward me, but continues to test me by indifference. It seems that she wants to see if the changes she sees in me are going to last. What I want to shout and cant is that God has changed me and continues to help me to be a better father, husband, friend, brother. If only she could know this in her heart.

Please agree with me in prayer: Father thank-you for this opportunity to grow closer to you. I lift up my wife and ask that you would heal her body, heart, mind and spirit. I ask that she would have a desire in her heart to know you as her savior. Please turn her toward her family, and help her to remove the wall between us. Lord I pray that she would feel peace in her heart when she is around me. Help her to look at me through your eyes.help her to forgive me and to trust me. Help us father to begin to build an renewed relationship built on you. Help me to have the right words and actions, that I would be the man that you need me to be. Father in the name of Jesus I bind satan and his lies. I pray Father your protection around my wife. Lord wherever she is right now I claim in the name of Jesus your protection over her. Protect her from the lies of this world, from opportunity for sin. I pray God that you would speak to her heart and show her how much you love her. in the name of Jesus. Please God calm my spirit. Amen.

Heavenly Father, Be with Broken Heart as he struggles with his life. I pray that he see that his wife is open to marriage reconciliation, as she just said that she needs to make sure that her husband has changed. Let him show her the signs that send the message that this is a permanent change. I pray that his wife is not doing anything which would be wrong in the Lord's eye's. I pray that she begins to see these changes in her husband, and their marriage begins to get back on track! I pray this in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!

Lord Jesus be with my wife. Soften her heart and help her to hear your voice. Help her to have the courage fight for our marriage. Father turn her towards our family. When she thinks about reconciling help her to have peace in her spirit. God please help us. Save our marriage in Jesus name. amen.

Lord, here my brothers cries to you! Heal their spirits! Let eadh of them lay their cares before you, and at the foot of the throne. May you guide the words they speak, and the actions (or inactions) they take! Let them be so much at peace, that they lay down to sleep with just the thought that they are tired, and nothing more! I pray this in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!

Lord, mend this broken marriage. Soften the wife's heart toward her husband. Remove all bitterness and anger. Through your Holy Spirit Lord, I ask that you bless this marriage with love, peace, and joy.

Be blessed,

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I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me. (Phil. 4:13)

Lord, in Jesus name, this cannot be. In Jesus name, let Your perfect will superceed and eclipse all plans the enemy has against this marriage. Recreate this wife's heart of stone to a heart of flesh and Holy Spirit open up her blind eyes so that she will see the TRUTH staring back at her. Cause her heart to turn back to her husband and noone else. Cause her to feel, think, hear, dream, desire, and call out for her husband and him alone. Whatever You need to do to perform this, Father, we welcome Your divine intervention. Amen!

God can do all things. He will do above and beyound all that you think and even ask for.Stop trying step back and let him do what he needs to do. Your wife belongs to him not you he knows her inside and out and more than you he dsires all of her, and then he can give her back to you whole. his heart is broken too because he so longs for her. Sing praises always especially when you are feeling doubful. She to him he is the lover of your soul and will do all that you ask of him. keep singing and praising and believing and keep calling those things that are not as though they are. remember he is well pleased with our faith.

(Deut 32:36) The LORD will judge His people and have compassion on His servants when He sees their strength is gone.

(1 Corinthians 1:27) ...GOD has chosen the weak things of the world to shame the things which are strong.

(Matthew 5:3) "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven."

The teaching of the Sermon on the Mount produces despair in the natural man--the very thing our Messiah the Christ meant it to do. As long as we have a self-righteous, conceited notion that we can carry out Our Saviour's teaching, YHWH will allow us to go on until we break our ignorance over some obstacle, then we are willing to come to Him poor in spirit and receive from Him. "Blessed are the poor in spirit," that is the first principle in the Kingdom of God. The bedrock in Christ's kingdom is poverty, not possession; not decisions for Christ, but a sense of absolute futility--"I cannot begin to do it." Then our Blessed Redeemer says--Blessed are you.

Abba Father, That is the entrance to Your Kingdom, and we pray for brokenheart's wife; may she see that she is poor in spirit, so that You may bless her in her weakness, her poverity, with Your strength.

Thank You, Abba Father, for wanting brokenheart's wife to be happy. You love to bless Your people and we pray You surely bless his wife with happiness.

The poor is spirit are happy because theirs is the Kingdom of heaven. Make this wife poor in spirit, Father, depending totally upon You.
Deliver her from the Kingdom of self. She wants to be clothed with Your humility, Father.

They who mourn are happy when You bring them comfort, because they realize You are their Source. Wonderful Comforter, please bring brokenheart comfort for he has been mournful a long time.

The meek are happy because they will inherit the earth. Help brokenheart's wife to become meek, Father, and to see You when she is mourning.

You have shown us that all who hunger and thirst after righteousness are happy because they will be filled. Please increase brokenheart and his wife's spiritual hunger and thirst for Your righteousness. Even now You are filling them both with all they need.

The merciful are happy because they have obtained mercy. May this husband and wife be merciful, Father, in their relationship with each other.

The pure in heart shall see GOD, they are happy. brokenheart and his wife want to be pure in heart, Father, so please continue Your workmenship in their marriage and lives.

The peacemakers are happy because they shall be called the children of Yahweh. May this wife and husband be known as peacemakers, Father, living in peace with each other. All who are persecuted for Your Name's Sake are happy too, Father, because they know their reward will be great in heaven. Help this husband and wife to rejoice and be exceeding glad in the face of persecution. (Matthew 5:1-12)

Help brokenheart and wife never to faint in the day of adversity, but to be of good courage, knowing that You will strengthen their hearts. (Proverbs 24:10)
It is good to know, Father, that their happiness is not based on temporal circumstances of life.

May they both realize, Abba Father, that blessedness comes when one delights him or herself in Your Word. brokenheart and his wife will meditate on Your Word day and night. Keep them from walking in the counsel of the ungodly. (Psalms 1:1)
Their hope and happiness are in You, Christ Yahshua.

Because they have tasted and seen that You are good, Saviour, You have forgiven them of all their transgressions and they are truely blessed indeed. Thank You for the gift of blessedness. Hallelujah! Amen and Amen


(1 Corinthians 8:6) There is but one GOD, the Father, from whom all things came and for whom we live; and there is but one LORD, Yahshua Christ, through whom all things came and through whom we live.

(Romans 11:36) For from Him and through Him and to Him are all things. To Him be the glory forever. Amen.

Father I surrender my wife and family to you. Only you can heal and save our marriage. Only you can cause my wife to desire a saving relationship with you. Only you can give us the ability to raise our children to love and serve you.

I love you Lord and I pray that you will continue to call my wife to you. Continue to work in our marriage and help me to be the man you need me to be. I Praise you and thankyou for your faithfulness.

Surround my wife and children with your angles and protect them through the power of the blood of Jesus. Protect me at work also Lord, go before me and guide me in my actions and words. In jesus name . Amen