Things have worked out for me and Alex and he is here with me now. But our communication level has sunk so low. It bothers me a lot and I need help. I need God's help on how to handle certain situations. Please pray for us. Thank you.

Heavenly Father we come and Praise You Lord. We life up Lizzy and Alex to You right now Lord we ask that You reach down and touch them both Lord. We know that YOU are in control and we ask that you just guide Lizzy and give her the help she needs and is asking for Lord. We Give You the Praise for the Answer RIGHT now Lord because WE know that You are WORKING right this second on this request and we Thank You Jesus. In Jesus Name we Pray Amen and Amen

Lizzy, I am offering something for you to try. I do not want to cause any more problems then you are already having, so carefully weigh what I am going to suggest to you!!!

The next time that Alex says, or does something that hurts you, instead of talking about what he said, or did, ask him why he did it! Do not even say anything except to say that he had done it, and ask why did you do it? Sometimes this takes the fight out of the other person, when you are not focusing on the problem, but you are just wanting to know why? Then, tell him that you are just trying to stop the fights! It is very important that you fix this before things go south. If you don't fix it, it will only add to the negative feelings about whether it will be able to work out for you. Will he go to counciling? Also, start to pray together each night before you go to bed. If he won't pray, then at least you pray!!!

Heavenly Father, I pray for this couple. Lord give Lizzy the knowlege of the how to act, and what to say to her husband. Give her the patience to not fly off the handle, no matter what he does!!! Give her the knowlege of how to pick her battles. Which means knowing when to say something, or just let it go. Help her to not get discouraged, or afraid which only causes more problems!!! Be there to comfort her, and keep sending her back here for prayer support!!! I pray that you lead her to someone who could help with family counceling!!! I pray this in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!

Good to hear that Alex is back with you. Your prayers have worked. I am praying to God that all may go well for both of you. You try to communicate with him more often. Just tell him how much you love him. I am very sure he will be the same ALEX again soon.

Lord Jesus bless this couple. Shower your choicest blessing on them. Keep them united.

Dear Heavenly Father, Thank you for bring Alex back into the home and for having the desire to work out their problems. Please place your hand on Alex and Lizzy and help them both to communicate their needs and desires for the future to each other. Help them to join together in their dreams and to begin a new life as one. Help them both to have a burning desire to be closer to you. Help them to find answers through you and your word. Guide them in the way you would have them go. For this we pray in Jesus name. AMEN

Thank you so much for all your prayers. I don't know if the pronblem lies in him or me. When we were not talking he had gone out and ran into someone that I don't want him even talking to. I keep bringing it up and I keep wanting to know what happened and all he says to me is "Nothing happened, please drop it." It makes me angry to hear that and I keep running my mouth over it and we start arguing.

Many times our fear(s) can get the best of us. A lot of times it will cause more problems than just the one, which triggered the fear. As many times you begin to get upset about every little thing. Pretty soon you are fighting more than not. I pray that you do not let this happen. Is it possible that you tell him that you don't want to fight about it, but at the same time you want to settle the fact that you don't want this happening again? Then ask him to set a time to talk about it (within a reasonable amount of time). Then after you have set the time, you must not bring it up! After you have talked about it (and hopefully settled it) you must not keep bringing it up, or this will just push him farther away from you!!! If he will not agree to set up a time to talk about it, you may have to lay low, and not talk to him until he's ready to. During this time it is important for you to have an outlet to express your fears. So find someone that you can trust, or just come hear, and vent your fears, and frustrations!!!
Just remember he came back to you. It does not make sense for him to come back, and not want to work it out with you! If something does not make since, then it probably is not true!!! Keep telling yourself this, everytime this little fear pops up! Also, remember that you are not going to be able to force him to do something, or not do it, if he wants to! My Grandmother used to tell me that you will always get more with honey, then venigar! Whenever you have fear come on this prayer site to ask for prayer support, and make your fears known. This will help you to get it off your chest, and possibly help you to keep your frustrations to a minimum. It will also keep you from unnecessarily grinding on Alex. I'm not saying that you don't have a right to, but keep in mind that he cannnot handle it. Also, you can be right about something, and no matter how right you are, you can still loose! Just think about what I have suggested, and only do it if you feel it will help. I only know a little about you guys, and you know the whole story!

***Heavenly Father we thank you that Alex has came home! I pray that you guide his wife in their marriage. Let her begin to see clearly what she should do. Give her an ample amount of patience to do what she needs to do! I pray that Alex begans to soften his heart towards his wife, as she backs off. Begin to deal with him, and help him to see what this has done to his wife. I pray that nothing is happening between this other person, and Alex. I pray this in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!

Lizzy, please don't go into that territory where you begin to question yourself and to take on ALL of the responsibility for this trial you both are in together. Do you know what the #1 cause of death is worldwide? It's...S I N...It's like a virus that has infected all of mankind because of what happened at the Garden of Eden with Eve and Adam (the 1st Adam). We are bourn sinners and Jesus is our antidote. Our lives must be single mindedly focused on HIM and who we are IN and THROUGH Him. Satan has come to sow "seeds-of-discord" in every human relationship with each other and with Jesus Christ, our Saviour. It is very normal to want to know what on earth is going on and what he is thinking. GOD knows; he knows; the girl knows; maybe people she knows, too. But, this is something that only GOD can handle now. Satan loves it when we "wrack" our brains trying to put some logical scenario together. kweig is right when she said that the problem is compounding itself because question after question is piling up with no clear answers. When there are no "clear" answers for you, Lizzy, let it go and trust GOD to take over. You believe in GOD so take a step forward and leave it to Him. He loves you, Lizzy. He will work it out for you. Father GOD, In Jesus name, we come before your throne for Lizzy and her husband. Holy Spirit, surround Lizzy with Your PEACE and place a hedge around her heart. Increase her strength in You, Father, and grant her revelation and saving knowledge of who You are to her and who she is IN and THROUGH You, Father. Help her to rest in You...help her to trust in You and to stay faithful that You will walk along side her through this trial. Let this experience mature, grow, guide, and lead her to the path of righteousness leading to Eternal Life with You. We stand also on behalf of her husband, tonight, Father. Holy Spirit, help him to find himself and his purpose in and through You. Help guide him to make the righteous decisions regarding Lizzy and their future together. Exchange his heart of stone for a heart of flesh so that he can know what Lizzy is going through and to make it right with her. Above all, Father, we ask in Jesus name that you use them both mightily for Your kingdom and glory for we know that all things are possible with You. We thank You in advance for the miracle that You have sent to them. Let all that You perform in their lives be for Your honour and glory. Amen and Amen!

We are here Lizzy anytime you need to just talk, and get something off your chest! I pray that this site will calm your fears, and just knowing that you have prayer support, will be of comfort! I pray for all of this, and in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!