Dear Lizzy, I am praying for you and Alex..for the strength of your love..for your heart not to be hurt but be delightful and blessed..Amen

Lizzy,
I and all Warriors and Intercessors are praying with and for GOD's divine intervention. You are 100% supported by your Friends here. We are praying for your faith to be strengthened and for GOD's PEACE to surround you. Remember, Lizzy, you will never walk alone through that valley. You are passing through this valley and soon, it will alll be behind you. You aren't thinking this now, but that's why we are here for you. We know it's true and we are praying you thorugh it, Lizzy. Remain strong in Christ, your #1 Source in all things. Keep looking to Him for all answers no matter how things appear in your mind. The enemy will mess with your mind and distort things like you can't imagine. The Lord is Your HELP in times of trouble...He is your banner and your shield...He is your strongtower and deliverer from the hands of the enemy...He is your PEACE, hope, and joy. Father GOD, in Jesus name, now more than ever Lizzy needs You. We call on You for help because You said You would come. Through our faith we believe that Your perfect will will be done for Lizzy's best interest and for the preservation of her family. We come together in ONE accord for Lizzy's miracle. We thank You in advance for the miracle You have dispatched. Let all You perform for her be for Your glory and honour. Amen and Amen! We love you, Lizzy. Be strong, girl!

BE STRONG IN CHRIST, JESUS!

Dear Heavenly Father we come and Praise You Lord. We Thank You for EVERYTHING. Lord we are lifting up Lizzy and Alex to You Lord we ask that You just guide them both and let their Marriage GROW SO BIG and BETTER than before. Let them come to You for everything. We Thank You and Praise You Jesus...You are AWSOME. We Pray ALL this in Jesus Name Amen and Amen

Thank you so much for all your prayers. He came home last night but not to stay. He just drove up here and he had to take our god to an appointment at 9 this morning. I'm lost and confused. Then he asked me if I would leave the door unlocked when I go to work and I asked him why. He said, "Oh, just in case I needed to get in here." So I said fine. Then he kept asking me when I was going to lunch and I told him that I had a doctor's appointment during lunch. So, I don't know what to think. I want him to come home and stay at home. I even changed my cell phone number last night and he doesn't know about it yet nor does he have my new number. Please keep praying for me. I need God to help me through this at this time. I feel as if we are so close to being back together, but I don't know what is stopping him.

Lizzy, I will keep praying for you and Alex. Try not to give in to despair.

Father I lift up Lizzy and Alex to you. Please calm thier spirits and help them in this marriage. Lord help Alex to see what is important. Turn his heart toward his wife and the remember the promises they made, not just to each other , but to you. Bless them an d keep them in your hands. In Jesus name. amen

He hasn't even left yet. I asked him if he was going to feed the dog this evening and he said, "Yeah, before we go to bed." He says that he is willing to spend Thursday through Sunday night with me and he wants to go home Monday through Wednesday because before he really really moves in he wants to know that all the drama is going to end. He says he will stay the weekends with me so that I won't be here at home thinking that he is going out or doing anything wrong. He says that he will take summer classes where his mom lives Monday through Wednesday. I am definitely not happy with this but I don't know what to do or what to think.

Hi. Lizzy, I am reading some of your posts. I don't know what to think either! Just pray for the Lords will in this situation! I am glad to hear that he is at least concerned that he does not want you to think that there is something going on with him. You may want to ask yourself is there some truth to what he's saying when he says: He wants to make sure that the drama is gone! If your answer is yes, then maybe he is just doing what he says he's doing. Maybe you should tell him that if he wants you to be ok with what he wants to do, and spending time at both places, ask him to sever all contact with his ex wife, and that he needs to tell his mother not to invite his ex wife over when he's there. I think maybe you should consider putting your foot down on this! If he does not want to, or continues to be around his ex, then maybe you need to consider telling him that this arrangement is not a choice cause you can't go along with it! One good thing is that he's at least making an effort to compromise! But, I am not sure how you guys can make it without no drama, when his ex is around his mother's house. I do not know if you can let this happen, without saying something about it! Maybe you should consider telling him that yes you think the whole idea of "no drama" would be great, so therefore he should not allow the drama of the ex wife to affect you both!!! Think through these things before acting!

As far as you changing your number... When he finds out, I would just tell him that you did this when he wrote you of how his ex wife was at his mothers helping to clean out his room, and mention the show tickets his ex wife bought! I would tell him that you had given up on you guys working things out, as you cannot put up with this, and you don't want this drama in your life! I would consider saying this to him, and putting your foot down!!!

Don't forget to pray, and ask for God's will, and mull it over a few times before acting. Just remember, he says he does not want drama! I would tell him if this is true, then he needs to take care of this problem right away so there won't be any drama!

Thank you so much everyone. He went home today and I am not happy at all. I want him to come home and stay at home. I don't know what to do because this arrangement is not something I want to put up with, but I love him and I don't want to give up on us.

Dear Lizzy, has he ever proposed marriage to you? Has it ever come up in conversation? Does this ever become an issue with either one of you?

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My eyes ever looking to the Lord for help. He alone can rescue me. Come Lord, show me Your mercy for I am helpless, overwhelmed, in deep distress; my problems go from bad to worse. O' save me from them all! See my sorrows; feel my pain; forgive my sins-Ps26
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