Please help me with your prayers. I am in such desparation right now.My husband left me and my kids two years ago for another woman. We are just proceeding with the divorce. My trouble is that I am angry at God for allowing this to happen and to continue to happen. He and the woman seem to be doing well and my kids and I struggling financially, emotionally, and physically. Please help to understand that God isn't doing this and it is their free will.

***Heavenly Father I ask for your peace to come over this wife, and Mother. Guide me in this prayer to her, so that something I pray for her will be the thing that she needs for this very moment in her life. Help her to stay away from thoughts of how well her husband is doing, and focus on what she is doing in her life. Help her in all her struggles. Let this very situation, be the very thing that makes her stronger, happier, and wiser in you. Calm any fears, and let her be at peace with knowing that no matter what happens you will help her through this, and she will make it. I pray this in the name of Jesus, Amen!!

***I just wanted to say something to you. I say this out of experience. Just because things look well for your husband (RE: this women, and his finances) does not mean that his life is perfect. The same flaws that he had in your marriage will resurface in the new one. He probably also views love, and marriage in this way: He is only in love, and wants to be married as long as things are going good for him. As soon as the marriage becomes work. He will be gone. This women, and him are still in honeymoon stage. When this is over, so will their marriage be over. It will be at this time that he reflects back on his choices of leaving his family for this women. What I am saying to you is almost guaranteed to happen. As he did not leave you, and do any soul searching about what he contributed to your marriage problems. As in his mind he left because he had fallen out of love with you, and flew into love with this women.

***Just remember your husband is running around not knowing what he is doing. He is trying to find love, happiness, and contentment in his life. He is running here, and there. He doesn't have a clue what true love is, or what he is doing! The Bible talks about people who are confused, and do not know what they are doing. True love is working together through it all (the good, the bad etc.). When you truly love someone you sacrifice for them. Your marriage gets stronger through the hard times, when you are truly in love. You find a deeper love, and committment by working through it all. He has not one clue of anything that I am speaking of. How is he going to be able to give this new wife anymore than he gave you?

***Many times people put the blame on the other person. When they do this, they fail to fix the problems they have. I am telling you that this new marriage probably won't work. Do not affixiate on this, try to focus on the things that you would like to fix about yourself. Take the time to get over what your husband has done to you. This way if later on you remarry, you don't carry this baggage into your new marriage. Affixiate yourself on, getting yourself in shape with God, and within yourself; so that the next time around you pick a better mate, and it is forever!

***I am not saying any of this so that you can gloat when his new marriage fails . As if you do gloat, you will be only hurting yourself. You will still be tied to him emotionally, and this is not good for you. It also blocks the way for any new healthy relationship for you!

***I am saying all of this so that you can began to realize that there is nothing that you can do for your husband, or this marriage. Your husband's eye's are blinded to the truth of the Bible, and what he should be doing. He is living a life of sin, and we should pray for him. He is on a path that is leading him straight to hell, and he has no clue of any of it! If it comes down to him following through with your divorce, and he remarries; I pray that this releases you from the ties that hold you back from your happiness. I pray that this brings you peace. Also, I pray that you completely shut the door to him, without any ill will towards him, so that you can go on with your life, and be happy. I pray this in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!

God's plans for our lives are for good and not for evil or disaster. They are to give us hope and a secure future. God does not cause bad things to happen to people but the bible tells us that the devil distorts the truth in an attempt to make people believe lies and turn away from God. Jesus is the way, truth and life. The truth of God's words liberates and sets free.

I pray that the Lord embraces and comforts you as you go through these difficult times. I pray for the peace of the Lord to fill your heart and I ask you to look to the Lord for his solution. The Lord is a provider and healer. He is able and will meet all of your financially, emotionally, and physically needs more than you can ever dream, hope for or imagine. Just rest in the Lord and goodness. Receive his love for you and keep your eyes fixed on him. Also surround yourself with people that will speak truth and life to you all the time. You and your children will be fine. Look to the Lord and He will supply ALL of your needs.

Please Lord give this mother the strength to move forward. Grant her peace, comfort and joy as she raises her children. I pray that any bitterness and anger be lifted and that she turns to You for direction and purpose. I pray this is the name of Jesus. Amen.

Be blessed,

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I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me. (Phil. 4:13)

Dear Heavenly Father, Please be with this sturggling mother as she is raising her children on her own. Help her to find comfort through you and your word. Help her to see that just because he is not struggling financially doesn't mean that he is not sturggling in ways that are much more harmful for him - possibly his salvation. Please place your hand on her heart that she will see you working in her life. For this we pray in Jesus name. AMEN

Father I pray that you will be with this mother and her children as they deal with this impending divorce and putting the peaces of thier lives back together. Father I pray that you will help her to focus on the healing that she needs and to turn to you for all the guidance, counseling and comfort that she and her children need during this time. Take this woman's hand Ftaher and guide her down the next set of paths you would have her travel. Help her to put all her trust and faith in you. In Jesus name I pray. Amen

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"There is in the deepest center of a believers' soul a chamber of peace where God dwells and where, if we will only enter in and hush every other sound, we will hear His still voice." A.B. Simpson

I just wanted to say a big "thank you" to all of you for your thoughts and prayers. I can feel the prayers uplifting me and my kids. Life is difficult right now however, the light at the end of the tunnel will shine brightly in God's time.

May the peace of our Heavenly Father continue to surround you. I pray that as you are going through your life, that you begin to take a new out look on your problems. I pray that you begin to ask yourself, what is God trying to teach me through this situation? Instead of the situation dragging you down. (I need to work in this area too!) Many times we go through life being stressed, or depressed etc, for a longer period of time than we have to. If we could just stop ourselves, and yes this sucks, but I cannot do anything about it. Then we would be able to put the focus on something that we can do something about! Putting God first is always a must. Because without him, we can really mess our lives up! I will continue to pray for you!!!

Merciful Father, we ask You to take these two dearly loved souls into Your hands. Include in Your mercy and compassion their children. May the covenant that has bound these two in marriage be Not violently severed, but carefully and peacefully laid aside, this divorce forgiven and granted meaning by GOD Himself. May these two remain parents and sacred friends.

Never shall the bond of marriage be made meaningless, before GOD or humankind.
May these two people loved by You, LORD, remember that the love of their union was important, and honor it always.

Your experiences together were the lessons of lives searching for love. GOD understands. He asks you to remember the innocence in each other, now and forever. May forgiveness wash you both clean. The love you gave and the love you received were real and will be with you always. The rest, may you silently and willingly give to GOD, that he might heal your heart and give rest to your soul. You have suffered enough, in coming to this point.

With this prayer, may your family begin again, having released the past and seek from GOD Himself a new path forward. We place both past and future in the hands of GOD. You are still a family, blessed and held together by GOD. May you remain so forever.
Amen and Amen

Heavenly Father please let this wife, and mother know that I have not forgot about her prayer request to this site. I pray that each day that passes will get better, and better. I pray financial blessings on this family. I pray for the children to be comforted. For this I pray, and in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!