This is a difficult situation to be in. I worked at an emmployer for 11 and 1/2 yrs., and with people like this. I kept thinking things would change if I just did this, or that. It was kind of like an abusive relationship. Things never changed, no matter what I did. The longer I stayed at this job, the more money I made, and the more debt (bought house) I incurred. All of this made it impossible to leave the job. It nearly caused me to have a nervous break down. ***I would like to offer some advice to you, and open the door to questions, so that you may be able to figure out what the best course of action is for you! This is purely advice, and nothing more. I do not have full details of your situation, and ultimately only you can make this decision, and can figure out what is best for you! Here goes: Consider your job. Does your management go along with all the back biting, and back stabbing that's going on? You may want to look at the following when determining what the best alternative is for you. (Do I want to stay, or leave this job?). Do the Manager's above your supervisor all stick together? (It should be noted: It does not work to go over the head of your boss, and talk to their superiors. It only makes things worse as many times they all back each other. Many times there is a secret code of conduct between them, of I will help me to protect your job, you help me protect mine. If you answered yes to many of these questions, and you see parallel's between the job I had, and yours, you might want to consider leaving the job. ***Heavenly Father we ask that you intervene, and bring peace to this work place. We ask that it be your will for whatever happens. If it is not your will for continued employment, than we ask that you open the door to a new job where the job is not so stressful, and a better fit! We pray that you give strength to handle what is going on, and rest from this worry, when at home. May the sleep be peaceful, and your comfort surround them. I pray this in the name of Jesus, Amen! |