I need some advice and your prayers..i've been married for 17 years and just few days ago, i met my ex boyfriend. we just smiled at each other, nothing more. there i felt that he still has a place in my heart. we never had a formal breakup. he just not talked to me anymore which i don't know the reason. just to prove to him that he's not the only guy on earth, i tried to have a relationship with my husband and he didn't waste any single chance to lose me.before we got married, my ex wanted to talk to me but my relatives didn't allow us to talk, they were thinking of what other people would say. my husband knows that i don't love him at first but just learned to because there was no turning back, that i don't have a choice but to love him. and now, i feel guilty, guilty because i still love my ex boyfriend.that even after 17 long years, that eventhough we both have families, my feelings for him is still there.i loved him so much and i still am..what shall I do? Pleas advice me and please pray for me....thanks,mariz

Love is a choice. You made an oath in the eyes of the Lord to be this man's wife & the Lord would not be okay with anything else. We care about many people in our lives and I believe any one of those people can be a good fit for you. So, just because you have feelings for someone else doesn't mean that the Lord still hasn't blessed you with what you have. These feelings are natural when we have thought about having a life with someone and then life turns out different. However, you must not act on these feelings, especially when you both have families. I will pray that the Lord grant you the discipline to control your emotional feelings towards this man and to give you guidance and wisdom in the words and actions you take; that the Lord may bless you and your family and that your life come into the will of the Lord.

God grant you through his holy spirit all wisdom in this matter in the name of Jesus. I tried to renew a relationship after 30 years. The years of living had turned us both into different people. We had grown up and the puppy love we had as kids didn't fit into our lives as adults. It was fun for a while, but it wasn't real and it went nowhere because all we had in common was memories of being teenagers. I hope that with all the powers of the holy spirit you find the strength to see past the past. Praying for you that to God be the Glory for the decision you make. God Bless and protect you and yours. Amen.

Dear Heavenly Father, Please be with Mariz that she will turn to you for comfort. Please remove any thoughts of sin from her heart. Help her to realize the importance of listening to you and help her to turn to the word for comfort and an for guidance. For this we pray in Jesus name. AMEN

Let us pray! Heavenly Father, Please give the strenght to Mariz to reject and resist all the endeavors of satan, and to always give her emotions to you Heavenly Father, protect her and keep her far from the errors and evils which corrupt the world. AMEN

Mariz, I will pray that God lead you away from this temptation.

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I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me. (Phil. 4:13)

***zweet, I pray that you seek God's will before acting on any of your feelings. Also, try to put yourself in his shoes, what would you want if you were the one who was not loved at first, and then they grew to love you? This man that your with has invested time, and probably knew that you may still love your ex. But he still took the chance, as he saw value in you, and loved you! How could you take this man and discard him as though he only was good enough, when this other guy was not in the picture? I am speaking the truth to you. ***What if your ex, was just kind of going back in his mind and thought you know I did not really love zweet when we were together, or at the least I did not value her enough to stay with her. But maybe if I try it again, maybe we can get it right, or maybe we could make it work. ***What if you leave the one who loves you, for the one you love. Then the one you love just leaves again, and leaves without saying a word. What would your wish be then, and in that case? I would really think about what you are pondering. Look at what you had with your ex, and what you have now! ***Also, the Bible is totally against what you are considering to do. ***If you choose this road, you choose to go without God! Is this what you want for your life? ***Why did it take your ex so long to come back to you? ***Don't you think if he really loved you, he would have came back along time ago? ***What can your ex say to convince you to leave a 17 yr. marriage for him? ***What can he do to reassure you that he will not leave (AND without saying a word) again!!! To me this is a sign of a chicken. ***This ex cannot be a christian, as he would not be having anything to do with you if he was: As you are married, and christians do not try to mess with married women! This is a huge problem as a Non-Christian will not be following the Bibles principle's. ***How could you think that a non-christian could offer anything more than a good time (that ends in disaster) as he had in the past!!! ***I pray that the Lord opens your eye's to what you are thinking of. I pray that the Lord begins to give you convictions, and you begin to stop, look, and listen. I pray that if you intend to leave the one your with, that you take the time to try to somehow make sure that he is somehow OK mentally. That you truly give him a heart felt apology, after sometime has gone by, and he's open to communication to you. As he will be hurting for sometime. I pray that God be with the one your with, as he will probably need it. ***I am not angry with you, and I do not hate you. I only want to try to wake you from your sleep, as I really believe you are heading for a train wreck! I pray for you to come to Christ, and you get to know him as your personal savior. I pray this even if you leave this man! ***Cause if you do (and things happen the way I have predicted) maybe something i've said will come back to you. ***It may not be until you (and your ex) break up again. (And I do believe it will probably happen). Maybe then the Lord will have your udivided attention, and you will turn from sin, and be saved. ***I again pray for your salvation. I pray this in the Holy name of Jesus, Amen, and Amen. !!!