Unregistered, Try to keep your chin up, I know its hard during these times. Remember God does not close one door, wihout opening another. Also, what i'm about to say may be kind of hard to take because it sounds like you have your heart set on he or she. Try to think of it this way. What if you were to marry, have children and then go through a divorce. It is much easier to break up now, rather than later. This is not to say that you are forever breaking up with this person, but keep in mind do you really want to be with someone who is not as in love with you, as much as you are with them? Take it from me, I am in the process of getting a divorce. My husband left me 6 months into our dating relationship. He came back one year later, and apologized, and asked for another chance to make it up to me. I told him that I could not take him leaving again. So I asked him to at least give me a ring, because I wanted to know that he was serious about me. He gave me a ring, and we were married one year later. He left for the second time 4 years later. He was gone for 6 months. He came back for one year, and left again. He blames me because he said that I pressured him into marriage. In any event, talk about heartache. I was not the one who approached him, and asked him to go out with me again. Is this what you want? Be very careful if you try it again. Ask lots of questions if he/she decides to make another go of it! Signed, trying to save you some heartache, or at least wanting you to be careful with your heart, and think it through. |