marriage crisis

#1 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 05:42 AM

Our marriage went through some serious difficulties this summer and god almighty brought us back together. Inspite of the fact we got reconnected distance due to our education made it real hard to connect at an emotional level. I gave my heart and sould to my husband and he tried hard to convience me, but something inside me kept telling me there is someone else in his life otherwise he wouldn't have treated you poorly in first place. I got so worked up about it that I lost ability to perfom well in school. I feel so emotinally disable now my husband have started calling me names. He has stopped answering my phone calls and has shut all the doors of communication. He started using words like hate and he wish i die. I am so torned apart I want us to work, but I am not sure how?
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odiear3rd · #2 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 08:01 AM

PRAYER CHANGES THINGS!! We have a banner in our little church that says this. I believe you need to Pray for your husband to change toward you. We here will be Praying for your husband with you. God Bless you for asking us to Pray with you. ODIE

ZephThree17 · #3 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 09:40 AM

Merciful Father,

We ask that You multiply Your grace and peace unto this wife and husband through the knowledge of GOD and of Jesus, our LORD. May this husband be given a humble and contrite heart and tremble at Your Word, so that he may be esteemed by You because he does have a humble and contrite spirit.

Righteous Father, please release Your righteousness, peace and joy into this wife's life. Let Your kingdom come and Your will be done in them as it is in heaven. Bless this wife and husband with a knowledge of Your presence. Lead them in the way of escape from every temptation. Keep their lives holy, and pure, before You. Protect them from the evil one. Prosper them and give them health, LORD.
Give them helpers who are full of the Spirit and wisdom to whom they can turn to, and teach this wife and husband to give themselves to prayer and the ministry of Your Word. Grant them healing.

Bless their lives with speacial love and harmony. LORD, we pray that this wife and this husband always remember to put You first in everything. May they nurture that love relationship and grow closer and closer to You. (James 4:8)
Hallelujah! Amen and Amen

christain737 · #4 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 10:08 AM

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Our marriage went through some serious difficulties this summer and god almighty brought us back together. Inspite of the fact we got reconnected distance due to our education made it real hard to connect at an emotional level. I gave my heart and sould to my husband and he tried hard to convience me, but something inside me kept telling me there is someone else in his life otherwise he wouldn't have treated you poorly in first place. I got so worked up about it that I lost ability to perfom well in school. I feel so emotinally disable now my husband have started calling me names. He has stopped answering my phone calls and has shut all the doors of communication. He started using words like hate and he wish i die. I am so torned apart I want us to work, but I am not sure how? I

Good Morning, Dear Sister.
One of the most difficult things to trust and "release" into the hands of GOD are those things which are very precious to us in every way imaginable. For example; you can be connected to an heirloom music box because it belonged to your great, great, grandmother and was handed down from generation to generation until it was handed down to you to hand down to your daughter and grand daughter, etc. You can be connected to a human being through love and marriage and all the dreams and expectations that come with starting a life together. These are things that are precious to us; so precious that we are even fearful to open up our hands and release them to GOD because we are afraid of the unkown; of what GOD will do. That is from the enemy who plants seeds of doubt and worry into your mind. Release this situation to GOD for He knows the best solution. He loves you so much that no human alive can come close to His love. He will never let anything bad happen to you or allow anything to come against you that you cannot overcome. I love you very much in Christ Jesus and ask that no matter how things appear, to wait on GOD to move. That is the most difficult thing a person can do under pressure because they need to see and demand an answer to their dilemma "yesterday". GOD demands your patience and trust in Who He is.
Heavenly Father, In Jesus mighty name we come before You on behalf of our Friend. We know that ALL power in heaven and on earth belong to You. We ask that Your perfect will be done for this couple and their marriage. Mend this marriage back to what You designed it to be from the beginning. Restore the love both had for each other and reverse the damage the enemy has caused to destroy it. We ask these things by our faith believing that ALL things are possible when we believe. GOD's peace be with you while you wait on GOD, Friend. Stay vigilant in your faith and pray.

Yoli · #5 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 02:09 AM

God can do all things. *Read God's word for encouragement. *He loves you very much. *I am praying for you.

Yoli

ryd40@aol.com · #6 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 07:44 AM

When we are in conflict with another person, we need God to put the necessary words in out mouth. Please turn to him for the answers. Dear Heavenly Father please be with this couple during their time of need. Help them to find peace in their hearts and see and feel the other's pain, in order to have compassion and understanding. For these things we ask in Jesus name. AMEN

hope · #7 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 05:41 PM

I am praying for you and your husband.

kweig · #8 (**permalink**) 03-02-2008, 09:04 PM

I will be praying for you and your husband.

christain737 · #9 (**permalink**) 03-03-2008, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Unregistered

Our marriage went through some serious difficulties this summer and god almighty brought us back together. Inspite of the fact we got reconnected distance due to our education made it real hard to connect at an emotional level. I gave my heart and sould to my husband and he tried hard to convience me, but something inside me kept telling me there is someone else in his life otherwise he wouldn't have treated you poorly in first place. I got so worked up about it that I lost ability to perfom well in school. I feel so emotinally disable now my husband have started calling me names. He has stopped answering my phone calls and has shut all the doors of communication. He started using words like hate and he wish i die. I am so torned apart I want us to work, but I am not sure how? I

Remain faithful to GOD and do not lose your trust in His power
to change your marriage around. You must not ever forget that satan has come with his illusions and images to place in your mind. He counts on you to look at all circumstances at face value. Remember there is a parallel world to ours called the "spirit" realm that you cannot see. Invisibles battles are taking place all around you on your behalf because of all the people who are praying for you. GOD has heard all of these prayers and although you cannot see with your human eyes, He has begun to move on behalf of the great number of people praying for you. Do you believe this? The hardest part is in the waiting. Be patient. Prayer can move "worlds". We love you in Christ. Remain faithful and vigilant in the GOD we serve. Remember, satan was defeated on the cross at Calvary when Jesus shed his blood to redeem us of our sins. You are already a winner through Christ, Jesus!