I wish I could go back and do things SO many things different and maybe Shane wouldn't have left. I keep asking God what I did and SHOW me what I need to do now to change. I have fully PUT GOD as #1 and my husband is #2. I know that satan has caused me to do things I did and now I am feeling SOOO bad because Shane is gone because of me. And I KNOW from reading the Bible that GODS WILL for my Marraige and I have some sites that help Standers of their marriage that are helping me with scriptures and what to do while I wait for my PRAYERS to be answered. And I know that some people say that free will of that other person God cant change...but you know what the Holy Spirit can keep on you until you listen...before we all became Christians we had that feeling that we needed to change and we would run and what happened one day we listened....right!! Well I know that if I keep on Praying and DOING as God tells me to do he will answer my Prayers and he WILL restore my Marriage. And I WILL wait until then. I love my husband very much NO not more than GOD. So I am becoming a better Christian now and I WILL NEVER turn from God again. When Shane gets home I will be the wife God wanted me to be and Shane and I will be better that before. But it helps to have people Pray with you that believe like you do. And know the POWER of God and the Holy Spirit. I think that God did this to bring me back to him and show me what kind of wife I needed to be for Shane and the problems he has with his past. So I am asking for anyone who wants to Pray with me PLEASE DO. And someday I will be putting a PRAISE REPORT for my Marriage on here. God Bless You ALL. ~Pepper (ibelieve_4ever)

I know how it feels when someone you love left you.. i pray for you.. "there Lord help her to do what is right, help her to think good and be consistent in loving you Oh Lord.. i believe that whatever she are into, its always your will and you have plans for her, but still.. i can feel that she needs a peace of mind and contentment in life, if you could give them another chance pls let it be, i'm praying behalf of her because i know how it feels like.. the pain is always there. pls if you could give some pain killer, hand it over. We love you and believe in you. AMEN>"

I am still Praying with you. God bless you. ODIE

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2 Chronicles 7:14 If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.

Dear Pepper, I will always pray for you, and your requests. I too feel the pain that your going through. It hits close to home. *I also want you to keep your eye's open. As I have said before, I just don't want to see you blind sided. This is in the case that it does not work out. If I could have any wish for you, it would be that you would get your wish. But this wish is based on you not being hurt anymore by Shane. I do not like to see indecisive men. This hurts!

***Heavenly Father reach down and comfort her in this trying time in her life. Give her the knowlege that the time to live is today. Help her to not put off her happiness until Shane comes home. Help her to start living today. Maybe if Shane starts to see that she is becoming self confident, and happy without him. This will be the thing that draws him home. If this couple is not married; I pray that they be convicted of getting married before they resume living together. I pray this in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!

kweig, Thanks Yes Shane and I are married we have been married for 15 months we got married Feb 13, 2007 we were married the first time 09/05/1998 but we did get remarried...just thought I would tell you that. I do NOT believe in Living with someone if I am not married. I know that is not what God wants and I have only been with my husband. I was raised to live like God wants. And I try to do my best. And I waited for Shane before and I know that he will be home again and I will wait for him again. I have talked to God and I just feel that this is what he wants me to do and I am going to do it. I know that people think I am wierd but I will wait and I will raise our daughter by myself until he comes back home. Thanks again for your prayers.

I am really praying that it works out for you guys. I pray that Shane makes a final decision, and that all his past history of indecision be taken from him. I hope that I never offend you in any way. As this is not my intention. I will keep you guys in my prayers each night! Sincerely, kweig!!!

I will be praying for your marriage to work out. I believe that God will answer your prayers. Just have faith in God. Lets God will be done.

Dear Ibelieve 4ever....
I too, am standing for the healing and restoration of my marriage - funny thing is that my husband's name is Shane too! - We've been married for almost 9 years. Just keep seeking God - not only for healing and restoration, but for you to have a wonderful and intimate relationship with him - listen to how he can/will speak to your heart regarding this matter. I, too, feel called to stand and wait until the Lord restores Shane's relationship to Himself and then to me. I will pray for you, your husband and your daughter. May God's peace comfort you during your "waiting time" - be assured though, that the Lord will reward those who diligently seek His face and WAIT upon Him! - In Jesus' MIGHTY name - AMEN!!!!

for restoration of my marriage,my husbands name is Ryan Allstun. He is with another woman, although we have been seperated for 4 years, I miss him so much and would love it if he would come by and see me some time. I would love to start over with him. I think of him everyday. I pray that he will not file for divorce.I pray that he will take a good postive look at our marriage. I pray that he will feel free to exspress his honest opinons to me about how he feels, I pray that when that time comes that I will be able to calmly accept how he feels, how he felt or how I made him feel. I pray that God will give both of us the tools right now to work out our marriage. I bind Satan away from me and my family so that we can be happy again. I pray that God will put his will into my husbands heart like he has mine. I pray that good christian examples will surround my husband and children and the rest of my family.I pray that my husband will come and see me soon or call me. Make he have a Spiritual Awakening so that we will have the same beliefs and be a good blessed Christian family. I pray that Ryan will come back to me, rather he is a Christian or not. May I be able to be a good example to him and my children and may he come closer to the Lord through my leading and examples. I pray for Strength to be a good wife and mother. I pray that I will get to see my kids soon. I pray that the letters that I am sending to my children and to my husband will touch their hearts deeply and lead all of them closer to Jesus and closer to me. I pray that I will be close enough to Jesus, to get the desire of wanting my husband to come back to me will happen. I pray that Ryan will come back to me soon, I pray that he will leave the party life that he is living and come to his senses that he has a beautiful wife, who has never stopped waiting on him, who has never stopped loving him, who wants to be what he neeeds and that he will come home. I pray that the even though he may not be a Christian, that the Lord, will put a strong conviction on his heart to try and work things out with me, that God will send his mind and soul good feelings about me. I pray that God will step in his life and interfere and take all the negative thoughts that he has about me and over ride them with pure love. May my husband come home soon.I pray that I will remain strong, no matter what the world says, or what the world calls me, or any other thing, may none of the words of the world bring me down or make me give up on my husband, Ryan Allstun. I also pray for his salvation. I pray that the letters that I have been writing him will make him do nothing but fall back in love with me. I pray that Ryans love can be safe with me and that I will give it all to the Lord for him. I will be what Jesus wants me to be. I will be a good influence on him. I will try to win him to the Lord and do everything that the Lord tells me. Holy!HOly!HOlY! Lord, bring this wonderful man home to his "new" "reborn" wife. Father, I ask you to let me be the one to bring Jesus into the life of my children, Devon,Kymberli,Katelynn, and to my husband Ryan Allstun. Father may I water the seeds that others have planted in his heart. Father, help me to reach him. Father, I believe in you. Heavenly Father, take Ryans worries and fears away. Father, live in his heart as you do mine. You are HOly! You control the world. Father, please bring Ryan back to me. Father, I will continue to grow, I will take my children to church with me, Lord I will try to get Ryan in church. Father, If Ryan and I have difficulties, I will pray to you. Father, I will not be ashamed to pray to you in front of my kids or in front of Ryan. Father, if I have troubles with the children I will pray and call prayer warriors or call others who know alot about parenting or send prayer requests onlind. Father, thank you for comming into my life so that I can be a good example for my family, Lord, I cant quote the verse, but I know that in the bible it says that the household will be saved. HOly are you Oh great Lord, you will save my husband. Holy is the Lord. Lord, let me not loose faith.Some people are so mean. Help me to not be as mean and rude and greedy and mouthy as others Lord, I have seen what they do and it turns me away and even closer to you. Father, thank you for comming into my life. Holy! Holy are you. Your mighty presence feels so good to me, my heart longs for you. Father help me to find the words and actions to make Ryan return to me. Father, I want to have true love with Ryan Allstun. Lord, let Ryan find this on the internet and may it lead us closer together.In Jesus holy most wonderful name, I pray and send my prayer request to this ministry and all over the internet. Amen.

Dear iBelieve 4ever,
I too know what it's like to love someone with all of your heart, but they don't seem to be quite where you are in the relationship. You wait for them to come to the realization that they love you as much as you love them, but the waiting seems in vain - the relationship thrives for awhile, then "I" do something stupid, or "I" need to change.

I too have been praying to God for restoration of a relationship with someone whom I love, but I know everything is God's will and God's timing. I am reading a book titled "You Deserve More" by Jewel Diamond Taylor and it helping me cope with some of my personal issues, which may appear as desperation. I have to heal and love myself before someone else can love me.

I will pray in faith with you that God heals and restores your happiness. Life is hard and lonliness is harder, but God promised to give us the desires of our heart. As long we put Him first, all these other things will be added. May God richly bless you with your heart's desires according to His will.

Brendae