I have to say something about second thoughts, and it is about how other people think of the things I do, in different situations. Maybe you can relate to this because everyone has second thought's. It is normal, but in some cases, we overreact or act a certain way and then we come to our senses and then wonder why we acted like that in the first place. The first thing you should do, in some cases, is put yourself in someone else's shoes and think about how they feel about what is going on. Think if you were that person, and then go back to being yourself and then act accordingly from experiencing a thought from a different view. Relationships are often hard at times, because people have second thought's about so many things they go crazy, and they don't even mean to, it's just natural. I have had my share of thought's, but after going so far you begin to realize what is really important and that understanding, trust, communication, strength, and much more, are all related to second thought's you may have. You must have these things in order to move on to do what is right for yourself, and in your life. I wish everyone to put yourself in someone else's shoes today, and try to see where they are coming from. God Bless you all who are having "second thoughts", I wish you the best, and remain positive and everything will work out in the end. He has a plan for each one of us and the every day little things we do is tied into a part of His plan for us. Staying positive is something so important, although I may seem a little crazy, but it will put your life on the right path. So just remember, we all have no idea when our time is going to be, and we need to be caring, and understanding, as well as loving towards one another, even in time's when we don't want to.
God Bless all- Jess