Did I do the right thing?

BrokenHearted · #1 (**permalink**) 01-30-2008, 08:54 PM

I just broke up from a gay relationship with my girlfriend "anne". She loves me, I love her. SHe was confused when I told her I needed a break. I just felt like living a gay relationship didn't please God.

The problem is, I still love her, and I"m scared that maybe I'm wrong, or going extreme, or going to miss out on a chance of a lifetime.

I honestly need help, because I've been suffering from anxiety, panic attacks, and insomnia, just thinking about this situation. the worst part is that my ex is starting to ignore me, which is just making it worse...

help!

ZephThree17 · #2 (**permalink**) 01-31-2008, 05:13 AM

Psalm 95:7-8 we are told "Today if you hear His voice, do not harden your hearts."

And isn't that what we so often do to GOD? When we hear His voice, like you have heard, now knowing that a gay relationship is displeasing to the LORD. When we know what He expects of us, we must guard against the temptation to reject HIM and His voice instructing us of His desire and His Truth -

Or sometimes we pretend we don't hear. We harden our hearts toward GOD, and turn our faces away from Him.

http://www.alphanewsdaily.com/Warnin...osexuality.htm

Righteous Father, Thank You for Your Word which makes us wise unto Salvation. Thank You for Your Holy Spirit who leads us into all truth. We pray for our sister here,

"That I may know Him, and the power of His resurrection, and the fellowship of His sufferings, being made conformable unto His death." (Phil. 3:10)

As we bow before Your presence LORD, we are still, and this is when we know that You are GOD. Thank You LORD Jesus You have chosen our sister here as Your friend. You have even promised to be with her in faithfulness, and in this way she can know You in an intimate, personal way. Thank You for leading our sister into all truth in Christ Jesus. Amen and Amen.

Jess · #3 (**permalink**) 01-31-2008, 10:37 AM

I must tell you that I understand the pain you are feeling, because whenever anyone gets into a relationship and forms that friendship, it's hard to let go of it; It's hard to imagine them not in your life anymore, but what is meant to be, will be; in God's timing. Every event that is taking place in your life right now, is happening for a reason, and even when we're confused or lost, with God you will be lead in the right direction. I am happy you found this site, because it has helped me and other's a great deal, and I wish to help you. You seem very caring, so maybe your like me, and you put other's before yourself sometimes. You have to be strong, and do things that make you happy and feel good, even if this means not being in a relationship. Do you have any goals or dreams that you haven't had a chance to chase? If you do, I suggest putting those above anything else, and really believing in yourself that you can get over any obstacle that is thrown your way, and accomplish whatever you wish. I have had many of my own troubling times, and honestly, I am surprised at how far I have come; I once was lost, depressed, had a few friends and family member's pass away..my brother going back to jail from mistakes he had made...and I would cry continually from anxiety and depression, until I left this all at God's doorstep. I started going to Church and met some good people, and they helped pick me off the floor, and rescued me from my darkness. I also suffer from mild anxiety and panic disorder, so I know that makes it's harder..but know that you have a new family here. Whenever you feel lost or confused, come to praying.org, and you will make it through any hard time you face. Don't think about "Did I do the right thing? ", because you Did. You are around good people, and this has happened for a reason. Sometimes the greatest blessings in our life come after the most difficult times. I am alone a lot, and I have set myself a goal, of having a puppy; because I know it will never leave me, and it's always there to make me smile and keep me in a good mood.I have a lot of love and I grew up with a dog, so I know that when I have that affection in my life again, it will help me get through any hard time I face. I love this site, and all member's, for all of their support and prayers, as it has really lifted my spirit and healed my heart. Positivity is very important, in determining your future, so put a smile on your face

. I am here for you, and so are other's. Try not to think of negative things. I will be praying for your strength and healing. God Bless you.

-Jess

christain737 · #4 (**permalink**) 01-31-2008, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by BrokenHearted

I just broke up from a gay relationship with my girlfriend "anne". She loves me, I love her. SHe was confused when I told her I needed a break. I just felt like living a gay relationship didn't please God. The problem is, I still love her, and I"m scared that maybe I'm wrong, or going extreme, or going to miss out on a chance of a lifetime. I honestly need help, because I've been suffering from anxiety, panic attacks, and insomnia, just thinking about this situation. the worst part is that my ex is starting to ignore me, which is just making it worse... help!

Hello, Friend!
Could I be so bold to ask this question? Does GENUINE love....well...does it ignore you and give you the cold shoulder? Can I give you a moment to digest that question? OK. Did you have an answer in your mind? Firstly, it wasn't you , but the Holy Spirit convicting your heart about your relationship. It shows that your love for GOD is INDEED quite real and VERY strong and genuine. No matter if we talk about heterosexual or otherwise relationships, genuine love doesn't make you feel guilty and put you in the DEEP freeze for breaking up. You know what that is? That is an issue INSIDE of her and the last person that will admit that to anybody is....HER. The enemy is coming against you with the "physical" issues. Your HELP is a lot bigger than you know, right now. He is Jehovah YWHW, the Almighty, ADONAI, El Elyon, El Shaddai, the Alpha and Omega, the ONE TRUE GOD, the CREATOR of ALL EXISTENCE, the Son of GOD, Jesus Christ our SAVIOUR, Redeemer, King of Kings and Lord of Lords, Jehovah Shalom, Jehovah Nissi (your Banner and Shield), Jehovah Tsidkeenu (your Righteousness), Jehovah Jirah (your Provider), the Maker of Heaven and Earth. There are "gods" created from the imagination of men and there IS GOD; the Great IAM...and there is NONE beside Him. GOD orchestrates situations and circumstances in life that will blow your mind. Did you know that GOD orchestrated what happened to you? He allowed specific things to come together to bring YOU back to Him. I knew it when I read your thread. You are not defined by human relationships. You are defined by GOD and called a Child if GOD. You belong to HIM, not any guy or gal. GOD is knocking on your door, Friend, and you answered Him. Praise GOD!
Father, in Jesus name, we thank You for the AWESOME things You are getting ready to do with this Friend. You KNEW she was going to visit us today. We thank YOU for sending her. In Jesus mighty name, by the blood that was shed on the cross to redeem us of our sins, and by our allegiance/alliance to Your Kingdom and Domain, by our faith we stand with our GOD, Jehovah Shammah, let Your PRESENCE be known and FELT by this anointed One. Satan, we come against you, your principalities, and your forces of darkness. You CANNOT enter in the presence of the BLOOD of the Lamb. We ask You, Father, to cover this Friend with the blood and be her Banner and Shield against the enemy. Instill a compelling desire in her to come and FIND YOU, her Creator. Let her be a great and couragious Warrior against the enemy. We stand with our GOD and in the name of our GOD, we command you to back off and remove your hand from this Child of GOD. We command you to return to the place that is designated for you. By the power and authority given to us through Jesus Christ, we speak PEACE to her. Grant Your divine wisdom, grace, and mercy to her as she searches for You, Father. Help her to know WHO she is and in WHOM she serves. We ask ALL for Your glory and honour. Amen and Amen!

We ask also, Father, that You would minister love and compassion to this One's friend. Shower her with Your unfailing love and compassion. Send a labourer to her to show her the way to the path of righteousness so that she may be found worthy for Eternal Life. We ask these things by our faith, believing that ALL things are possible when we believe. Friend, GOD loves the one you broke off with as much as He loves you and me. He loves us so much that He commands us to love our enemies, bless those who curse us, and to PRAY for those who persecute us and despitefully use us. Basically that means...we all got a LOT of prayin' to do. GOD bless, Friend. GOD's Peace remain with you and get a good, well deserved rest tonight!

ambie · #5 (**permalink**) 02-02-2008, 09:43 PM

Hi, I just wanted to give you my prayers and support. Please know that if you need a shoulder to cry on, I am here for you. A break-up from someone you once love is hard to move on from. Just keep praying and your life will improve. Be blessed ambie

christain737 · #6 (**permalink**) 02-06-2008, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by BrokenHearted

I just broke up from a gay relationship with my girlfriend "anne". She loves me, I love her. SHe was confused when I told her I needed a break. I just felt like living a gay relationship didn't please God. The problem is, I still love her, and I"m scared that maybe I'm wrong, or going extreme, or going to miss out on a chance of a lifetime. I honestly need help, because I've been suffering from anxiety, panic attacks, and insomnia, just thinking about this situation. the worst part is that my ex is starting to ignore me, which is just making it worse... help!

Hello Friend.
Noone is saying that breakups are NOT difficult. Trust me, all of us have been there. Before I knew Christ in my life, satan put thoughts of "suicide" in my head and I attempted it twice and failed. It failed because that was NOT GOD's plan for my life. You have to love GOD more than any human being on the planet. If you are SERIOUS about KNOWING Christ and serving Him, you need to let go of any relationship when the other person does not place GOD first. Whatever and WHOEVER you think about MORE than GOD, our Creator, is your idol. I am not trying to sound mean or anything, BUUUUT it isn't about me or you or the people we break up with or who break up with us. It's about GOD, deliverance, salvation, and our Eternal Destination. We have been assigned to go out and reach the lost for Christ. Nothing and noone should have or be given the power stop you from serving Christ first...not second. I feel bad for you, but we can't be indecisive about WHO we are and IN WHOM we serve. Just as we have to mature and grow from our teen years to adulthood, in the spirit realm we also have to mature and move forward to fulfill our destiny in the Kingdom of GOD. Father, in Jesus name I ask that you grant this friend REVELATION and SAVING knowledge. Let her FIND You and show her WHO You are. Let all be for Your glory and honour. Amen.

#7 (**permalink**) 02-20-2008, 05:50 PM

Listen, I am not religious and this message will probably never make it past the admin but I hope it does for your sake. All I have to say is DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY, wouldn't the Lord want you to be happy?

#8 (**permalink**) 02-20-2008, 05:55 PM

I see my last message made it as there must be no admin screening so they must not care but if they do dont bother blocking my IP or MAC address as the ip is random generating and my MAC address is firmware hacked to renew so don't bother. back to my topic YOU NEED TO GET HER BACK if you dont you will regret it your entire life don't make this mistake, I feel for you.

christain737 · #9 (**permalink**) 02-20-2008, 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Unregistered

Listen, I am not religious and this message will probably never make it past the admin but I hope it does for your sake. All I have to say is DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY, wouldn't the Lord want you to be happy?

Thankyou for your thoughtfulness and encouraging
words, Friend. May GOD bless you and your family at your
greatest point of need. You will be welcome at any time,
by the way. I don't see anything negative about encouraging
someone when they desperately need it. You most likely "made their day"!

ZephThree17 · #10 (**permalink**) 02-21-2008, 04:25 AM

"Firstly, it wasn't you , but the Holy Spirit convicting your heart about your relationship. It shows that your love for GOD is INDEED quite real" Christian 737

Hallelujah! Amen and Amen!

"Father, in Jesus name I ask that you grant this friend REVELATION and SAVING knowledge. Let her FIND You and show her WHO You are. Let all be for Your glory and honour. Amen." christian737

Hallelujah! Amen and Amen!

"In Jesus mighty name, by the blood that was shed on the cross to redeem us of our sins, and by our allegiance/alliance to Your Kingdom and Domain, by our faith we stand with our GOD, Jehovah Shammah, let Your PRESENCE be known and FELT by this anointed One. Satan, we come against you, your principalities, and your forces of darkness. You CANNOT enter in the presence of the BLOOD of the Lamb. We ask You, Father, to cover this Friend with the blood and be her Banner and Shield against the enemy. Instill a compelling desire in her to come and FIND YOU, her Creator. Let her be a great and couragious Warrior against the enemy. We stand with our GOD and in the name of our GOD, we command you to back off and remove your hand from this Child of GOD. We command you to return to the place that is designated for you. By the power and authority given to us through Jesus Christ, we speak PEACE to her. Grant Your divine wisdom, grace, and mercy to her as she searches for You, Father. Help her to know WHO she is and in WHOM she serves. We ask ALL for Your glory and honour. Amen and Amen!"
Christian737

Hallelujah! Amen and Amen!

"We ask also, Father, that You would minister love and compassion to this One's friend. Shower her with Your unfailing love and compassion. Send a labourer to her to show her the way to the path of righteousness" Christian737

Hallelujah! Amen and Amen!

Thank You, Almighty GOD, You empower us by Your Holy Spirit to be witnesses for You. You grant us to speak Your word with all boldness. (Acts 4:29) Let Your Word have free course, grow mightily and prevail in the lives of these dear persons. LORD, You said that the gates of hell would Not prevail against Your Church. (Matthew 16:18) Therefore we ask that all the influence of the powers of darkness assigned against our new sister in the LORD Jesus Christ be broken and destroyed. Hallelujah!

Let Your Holy Spirit move in such power that multitudes are saved and every knee bow and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is LORD! (Philippians 2:10,11) Hallelujah!

Loving Father in heaven, that people would learn to praise You for Your goodness, LORD, and for Your wonderful works to the children of men. (Psalms 107:8)
Let people come to Your sanctuary to exalt You and praise You. Let us share Your life as we worship You. Hallelujah!

Amen and Amen
Hallelujah! Amen and Amen! Hallelujah! zephthree17

"He is Jehovah YWHW, the Almighty, ADONAI, El Elyon, El Shaddai, the Alpha and Omega, the ONE TRUE GOD, the CREATOR of ALL EXISTENCE, the Son of GOD, Jesus Christ our SAVIOUR, Redeemer, King of Kings and Lord of Lords, Jehovah Shalom, Jehovah Nissi (your Banner and Shield), Jehovah Tsidkeenu (your Righteousness), Jehovah Jirah (your Provider), the Maker of Heaven and Earth. There are "gods" created from the imagination of men and there IS GOD; the Great IAM...and there is NONE beside Him."
Christian737

Hallelujah! Amen and Amen!

JESUS HEALS THE BROKENHEARTED

'He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds' (Psalms 147: 3)

'He sent me to bind up the broken hearted, to proclaim freedom for the captive....' (Isaiah 61:1)

Only LORD Jesus the Christ can heal the brokenness of our hearts. Only LORD Jesus the Christ can restore, refresh and renew the depths of our hearts, soul and spirit. So many are bound in the past, bound by fear, anxiety and past experiences. So many find themselves continually operating out of emotional deficits and out of the issues of the heart.

But Jesus came to set us free and deliver us from the hurt, rejection, and bondage-s of our lives!

Hallelujah!

Amen and Amen