I am so sorry to hear of all the stress you are going through, and of your ex-husband's selfishness, but know God is here and is listening to our prayers. I know it must be very hard, trying to do all this on your own, so know that there are people here to help you. I believe you should talk with an attorny, and explain your entire situation to them, and see what information they can give you. I believe your ex-husband needs to let you go, especially if you are wanting to move, in order to better yourself and your loved ones. You are a strong person, with a big heart, so don't ever give up on what you believe is the right thing to do. This is your life, and God, as well as other's, want you to live happily. I pray that this person's ex-husband will gain God's Understanding, Faith, and that the evil and hate inside him, be removed. May Charmaine be lead down the right path, and when needing help, Please guide her the way she needs to go; and with the right people by her side. Please Bless her and her loved one's, so they may all move on and live with peace, love, and understanding; leading to a very blessed, happy life, wherever place they may be in. Amen and God Bless you all- Stay positive, things will work out for you all, just keep your Hope and Faith, and God will pull you out of the mess. I am here for you, if you need anything, as well as many others. May we all be praying for you, and each other.
-Jess