Please pray for my ex-fiance and myself

tbnewjersey · #1 (**permalink**) 08-11-2008, 06:40 PM

Please pray for me; I was engaged recently up until June 23, 2008. I met my fiance, Frank in July 07 and we were engaged 3 months later. My fiance and I had an instant chemistry and attraction; I felt that I finally had found my soulmate because we understood each other deeply. We are close in age; I am 38 and he is 45. We were inseparable even when we were at work; we would call each other at least 4-5 times a day and e-mail each other; we would never leave each other or go to bed without saying that we loved each other. My Fiance found out back on May 13th of this year that I was in contact with an ex for over 5 months that I was trying to help through his problems including contemplating suicide. My fiance said that I betrayed him by being in contact with the ex and hiding it from him and he feels that I ruined our future which included marriage and our dreams of starting a family. When he found out about it in May, we had a long conversation about what I did. I stood up and took responsibility for my actions and apologized and told him that I will never be in contact with th ex again and I have not since May. Over the next 5 and a half weeks or so, we seemed to be fine; we visited family and friends, went out to dinner, etc. But on June 23rd, he came to me and said he could not stop thinking about what I did to him and he wanted his space and asked for his ring back. Well, that was 7 weeks ago and I have not heard from him since. For five weeks, I left him alone. But,on 7/27 which would have been our 1 year anniversary, I sent him an e-card, telling him that I was praying for his emotional/mental wounds to heal that I had caused by my deception and I hoped he was ok. Then last week, I left him a voicemail to let him know I was there for him and very much in love with him and was very apologetic again for my deception and told him that I hope he was fine. I am praying for his wounds to heal and for God to forgive me and bring us back in each other's life; to reunite us and our love for one another.I am praying that God reveals to him how really sorry I am for what I did and I do love him and I want both of us to work through this together; including going for counseling so we can achieve our dreams of marriage and a family. Every day, I pray to God that he brings us back together because we had so much in common, we could read each other's thoughts and we had a very strong love for one another. I know this is my soulmate and I love and miss him so much; actually since the separation from him, my love gets stronger for him each day. I think about my deception every day and I pray each morning and night to God asking for forgiveness and have vowed to myself and God that I will never be deceptive in my relationship again. Please place my ex-fiance and I in your prayers; thank you in advance...

mattosan · #2 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 12:14 AM

lord please help this woman and all her hopes and dreams to be realized and heal the division between her and her fiance..lord help her to forgive herself and help him to except her sincerity in her appoligy..in jesus name amen

Tony · #3 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 01:48 AM

Lord, I pray that this man and woman be brought back together and the past, stay the past. Lord I am going through a similar situation with my wife and her old boyfriend and my famiyl is at stake. Please bring her peace and the soulmate that you blessed her with. Let his heart be lightened with the burden of a broken heart. Let them rejoice in thier love for each other and be witness to Your Greatness. In Jesus Christ name I pray, Amen

tbnewjersey · #4 (**permalink**) 08-13-2008, 05:02 PM

Tony, thank you for including my ex-fiance and myself in your prayers; I pray that your situation is blessed also. I pray that your wife and you can make it through your challenges together. Praise Jesus for he will watch over both of you

#5 (**permalink**) 08-14-2008, 10:55 PM

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Originally Posted by tbnewjersey

Please pray for me; I was engaged recently up until June 23, 2008. I met my fiance, Frank in July 07 and we were engaged 3 months later. My fiance and I had an instant chemistry and attraction; I felt that I finally had found my soulmate because we understood each other deeply. We are close in age; I am 38 and he is 45. We were inseparable even when we were at work; we would call each other at least 4-5 times a day and e-mail each other; we would never leave each other or go to bed without saying that we loved each other. My Fiance found out back on May 13th of this year that I was in contact with an ex for over 5 months that I was trying to help through his problems including contemplating suicide. My fiance said that I betrayed him by being in contact with the ex and hiding it from him and he feels that I ruined our future which included marriage and our dreams of starting a family. When he found out about it in May, we had a long conversation about what I did. I stood up and took responsibility for my actions and apologized and told him that I will never be in contact with th ex again and I have not since May. Over the next 5 and a half weeks or so, we seemed to be fine; we visited family and friends, went out to dinner, etc. But on June 23rd, he came to me and said he could not stop thinking about what I did to him and he wanted his space and asked for his ring back. Well, that was 7 weeks ago and I have not heard from him since. For five weeks, I left him alone. But,on 7/27 which would have been our 1 year anniversary, I sent him an e-card, telling him that I was praying for his emotional/mental wounds to heal that I had caused by my deception and I hoped he was ok. Then last week, I left him a voicemail to let him know I was there for him and very much in love with him and was very apologetic again for my deception and told him that I hope he was fine. I am praying for his wounds to heal and for God to forgive me and bring us back in each other's life; to reunite us and our love for one another.I am praying that God reveals to him how really sorry I am for what I did and I do love him and I want both of us to work through this together; including going for counseling so we can achieve our dreams of marriage and a family. Every day, I pray to God that he brings us back together because we had so much in common, we could read each other's thoughts and we had a very strong love for one another. I know this is my soulmate and I love and miss him so much; actually since the separation from him, my love gets stronger for him each day. I think about my deception every day and I pray each morning and night to God asking for forgiveness and have vowed to myself and God that I will never be deceptive in my relationship again. Please place my ex-fiance and I in your prayers; thank you in advance...

I know how you feel.. and my heart goes out to you. I pray God heals your broken heart and guides you to true love. Please try to put everything into proper perspective and be able to heal so you can grow again. I pray God gives you a new direction in life to grow closer to him each day and replace all the emptiness you feel inside now with your true soul mate "JESUS". If you have told this man how you still feel and he does not feel the same please, I pray you will be able to let him go and let God take over in your life. I do not want to hurt your tender heart but he is more apt to come back or to want you back if he thinks you don't want him and the chase begins again. You made a bad decision when you went back to your ex to help him even if it were for suicide this was betrayal in your fiancee's heart and mind and it hurt him. It may have possibly have done irreversible permanent damage to your relationship. Especially since you hid the fact that you did this for months from him. Consequences for our actions are the hardest things in life to face. We all seem to think it is alright because we apologize and ask for forgiveness and everything is all better and like new again. Unfortunately man or woman does not usually have that kind of unconditional love for each other. It is usually OVER when someone is unfaithful eventhough they are forgiven. Acceptance of the wrong we do and the forgivenes but the total change of our life the consequences can bring to our life can be brutal to honestly realize and accept. I pray God helps you to put all of this into proper perspective. Even the fact that if he came back like you want him to... would you betray him again in secret hoping he would not find out. I know this is painful for you as I have done this same type of betrayal meaning know harm but ruined a relationship that meant very much to me.

Father God I pray for this Child of your tonight to search her heart for her true feelings of why she did this and if the ex is the person she truely loves that she secretly helped out while her fiancee' was kept unkowing of it or is her fiancee' the man she truely loves and respects enough to marry and be faithful to the rest of her life. Or is there someone else entirely meant to be her husband in your will and time Father? Father I pray you comfort and heal her broken heart and life now and be the strength she needs to do complete and rigorous inventory of all her actions and intentions and true feelings. Father we read so much about the broken suffering marriages and we want this Child of yours here tonite to be blessed with a wonderful Christian marriage that keeps you first Father God and that honors the marriage vows and does not defile the marriage bed or relationship in any way.
Father we know that you love both of these people and they are your children and you do not want any of us to suffer but you do descipline us. Father I pray that if they are meant to be together that you work them through a rigorous understanding of each others thoughts and desires and needs and beliefs that they may truely determine before marriage if they are meant for a lifetime relationship. And Father if she feels this way and he no longer has these feelings for her I pray you heal her heart and renew her mind and guide her to the man you have intended for her to share her life. I praise you God for all you do forever and ever. In Jesus name I pray

AMEN

#6 (**permalink**) 09-27-2008, 05:05 PM

Heavenly Father, please help this lady and this man get back together. Lord, you know the pain of losing someone we love. Please Lord help them and help the others out there to reconcile. Lord, I thank you for the experiences that we have during our lives and thank for always being there. In Jesus Christ's name I pray, Amen.

jessie · #7 (**permalink**) 09-29-2008, 04:59 PM

God, please forgive them of all of their sins. You know the answer, please make this all work once again; I pray this to you Lord, in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.