First, I would like to tell you, Ronnie, that you are not a both to the community, nor to God. Persistent prayers are very important. In Matthew 15, a woman prays persistently for Jesus to heal her daughter. It seems that Jesus is putting her off, but she soon realizes that Jesus was trying to develop her faith. Not destroy it. At last, he claims: "Woman, you have great faith! Your request is granted."
So never feel lost. Don't give up. Instead, give it to God. Trust God to take care of it. It says in His Holy Word that He hears your prayers. In addition, you have multiple people praying for you.

So, cast off your worries. Don't give up, but rather pray and give it to God so that your worries and fears can be cast away. Is it possible that God is developing your faith - the most valuable gift of them all. An eternal gift.
My Lord Heavenly Father,
Ronnie and I come to you in the power of two in prayer for his marriage. Caring Father, please please please draw near to Ronnie and his love, and may they draw near to each other. Fill their minds and hearts with the holy spirit so they experience true joy, love, and happiness. Push them to cast their worries to You, and may You handle it in Your timing of grace. There is a reason for these pains Ronnie and his family is going through, and we pray that Your light with show that path and the reason in the upcoming future. May Ronnie's faith grow - and grow to the point where he can lead his family spiritually. May Ronnie and his love open their hearts to each other, and to You, O' Lord. Remove all barriers that would keep them apart. Fill Ronnie's heart and mind with peace at this time, so he can better serve You now. Please present peace to his loving family as well. Thank you for hearing our prayer Father. In the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. We Pray. Amen.