I am a fellow stander and child of God. I know the pain that you are going through. My wife and I are separated now. Its a pain that can't be explained or understood unless you have gone through it. The good news is we dont have to go through it alone. You see Jesus is there with us the whole time just waiting on us to lean totally and completely on him. He has also given you prayer partners and wonderful children to love you. Another good thing you have are the promises that our lord and savior gave us. That if we seek we shall find and ask and we shall receive. Also, whatever we ask for in Jesus name, in faith, with be given to us. BELIEVE those promises. Have faith in our Lord regardless of how things are, he can and will turn them around. It happens all the time, but in Gods time, but it will happen, Our spouses are trapped in sin right now. Pray that they escape from the grips of satan everyday. We must pray for a hedge of protection surround them, pray for the armour of God to be put on them daily and love them unconditionally because thats what you as a stander have been called to do. Dont worry about what our spouses are doing or how happy they look, they may not be as happy as you think, plus satan wants us to feel that way because it makes us doubt God, his willingness and his ability to heal you and I and our families. I stand with you brothers and sisters. We will fight together with thousands of other believers and standers, with Jesus leading our way. Our spouses will come home. Believe. Believe. Believe. ronnie

Please read Sticky by odiear3rd= moderator. I believe you need to put other links in your profile. I don't mean to offend. It is just that we all need to be in agreement. Your profile will give people the opportunity to contact you either on your e-mail site or through private messages. This is a part of the site that is personal, if that is what you need. The public part of this site is, I feel, for prayer and support only. I have and will keep praying for your family. I feel you are a very loved child of God, and he is working his miracles in your life. God Bless, Your sister in the army of God. Sandy.