Well everyone I'm asking for your prayers. My family is in a yuky spot. Wife has been confiding in a coworker in a very lovey way (to be nice) And I have called her out on it we have had some very ugly arguments about it. And maybe some light at the end of the tunnel for us but not sure she has done postive things to show her love.

But to be honest I'm ready in case it dosen't work (very scared of it ) but ready.

Any prayers for my son,wife and I would be very much taken to heart.


THANK YOU ALL

MY PRAYER FOR THIS WIFE...
Heavenly Father you know right where this couple is in their lives. Give this wife the insight of knowing that true love is forever. It means that you sacrifice for, and do whatever it takes to make things work. I pray that you begin to deal with this wife concerning the inappropriate behavior. Please let her realize that the "GRASS IS NOT GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE". Open her eye's to the fact that each, and every relationship has its problems. That if she does leave, and chooses to not to work out the differences in this marriage; that she will only be trading in one man who is not perfect (and has some problems) for a new one with different, and new problems! Let her know that second marriages not only have the problems her original marriage, but that it comes with extra problems. Such as: Now you have a child who is not the biological child of the person that she is thinking of being with. Let her know that it is not easy working out an acceptable parenting plan for the man who is not the child's Father. This adds to the difficulty of making the second relationship work, because besides the normal problems of a first marriage, there are an added second set of problems which would not be an issue with her first marriage! As both parents are biological parents to their children. Let her know that there are other difficulties to second marriages (and/or relationships) and that she has no idea of the "CAN OF WORMS" that she is contemplating opening! I pray that she begins to really think about her choices, and act with a clear mind! For this I do pray for this wife, and I pray this in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!

MY PRAYER FOR THE HUSBAND...
I pray much the same prayer for the husband as I do pray for the wife! I pray that he begin to think with a clear head, and warn his wife of the new difficulties that both of them face if either one of them chooses to end this marriage. I pray that he just tell her this, and give her the time to think about things, without hammering her about this co-worker. I pray that he backs off, and gives his wife time to think. I pray that the Lord grants him the patience that he will need to do what he needs to do! I pray that he lets his wife make the choice to stay in the marriage on her own, and without pressure. As if it is not her choice, and without pressure, these problems will not go away! I pray this for this husband, and in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!

MY PRAYER FOR THIS COUPLE, AND THEIR CHILD(ren)...
I pray that both of them refrain from being selfish, and think of what they will be putting their child through under these circumstances. I pray they realize that this child did/does not get to choose his parents, and/or her step-parents. I pray that they realize what this child wishes would be, if he were to be given a choice in this matter! I pray that both of them begin to take a step back, and re-evaluate this marriage. I pray that the husband continue to reach out for prayer support at this site, and possibly look for other support such as a church. I pray that through this site, he is given the support he will need to have patience. I pray that he begins to tell his wife that he loves her, and is concerned about their son, and what will become him. I pray that he is given the words to speak to her to encourage his wife to work things out! I pray this for this family in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!

Dear Heavenly Father, Please be with this family as they deal with this difficult time in their marriage. Help the wife to see that she should place her confidences in her husband that they may work the problems out with each other. Please give the husband and wife the desire to work out their difficulties and raise their child together. Help them both to have a burning desire to find comfort with you and your word. FOr this wer pray in Jesus name.>AMEN