I really appreciate everyone's prayer support. It has meant so much to me!

***Please continue praying for my marriage to Tom. We have been doing great, and have begun to work through our troubles.

***Sometimes I just get scared, that if we get back together, that he will just leave again. Or maybe he will refuse to compromise, and it will be his way or the highway 100% of the time. This was the past. He is showing signs that he wants to make a change, but when it comes right down to it, will he?

***I have been praying for God's will for our marriage. I have prayed that the Lord show me if it is the right thing to do to get back with him. It is crucial that I make the right choice here, as this time I will be moving out of state to be with him. If I sell my home, I may not have the income in order to get a loan, and buy a home for some time. As I am going back to school to become a registered nurse. Please pray for us. Thanks, kweig!!!

kwieg, I will continue to pray for your marraige and that God will provide the restoration your marraige needs. I will also pray for your peace of mind in the matter. Lord I pray that you will be with Tom and kweig as they embark on trying to rebuild thier marriage and lives together. Counsel them both on the areas that need to be worked on. Bless and be with kwieg as she takes on a new career and puts herself through school. Father I pray that you will guide this couple in the direction you would have them go. Take thier hands Father, hold on tight and bring them both closer to you each and every day that goes by. I pray that you would protect this marraige from anything that would harm or destroy it. Let nothing come into the hearts or habits that would threaten this marraige in any way.Help them Father to find time for one another alone, to nurture and renew thier marriage and remind themselves of the reasons they were married in the first place. I pray that you would unite this couple in a bond of friendship, committment, generosity, forgiveness and understanding. Amen

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"There is in the deepest center of a believers' soul a chamber of peace where God dwells and where, if we will only enter in and hush every other sound, we will hear His still voice." A.B. Simpson

Dear Kweig, God Bless your for asking for prayer. Just remember God is working in your favor and he will give you the answers. I will continue to pray for you.

Thanks guys for the words of prayer, and encouragment! We are making good strides when it comes to being able to talk, and it appears as though he is willing to compromise. Some things I will not know, unless or until, I move their.

***My big concerns are that he will not follow the Bible. I think he has more liveral views when it comes to this. If he does this, how much will it affect our marriage. The other thing is his upbringing. I do not think that he was brought up with strong moral principle's. I believe that he was brought up to think that you treated people right as long as you wanted to. Also, f someone did something to you which you did not like; you got even. These things bother me as I believe they make up your core being as to who you are as a person. How long will our marriage last if you have those two things wrong in your life? I do believe that he wants to be with me. I do believe that he wants to do this until we die (at least right now.) But, how long is this going to last when you have problems with what you think christianity is, and moral values? This is the big question!!! You can have the best intentions, and everything, but unless your willing to admit (and believe) these are problems, you will not permanently fix what you need to fix. I believe it will only be temporary. Cause ultimately it comes down to you, and not love, forever, marriage etc.

***What do you guys believe in your heart of hearts as to what i've said. Please don't be afraid to tell me. I will not make my whole decision on what you say, but I do want to consider it!!! Thanks for everything you have done. Sincerely, kweig!

Well, kweig,
If he is willing to stay married and has shown some signs of change for the positive, that is good. He can't change everything about himself in one night. The bible counsels us to stay with the unbeliever if they choose willingly to stay and preserve their marriage. Keep praying on his behalf to the Lord to change his heart of stone to a heart of flesh and that the Holy Spirit would move him deeply to start thinking about where his life is leading him and that GOD is what is missing from his life. He sounds "restless"; as if he is searching for answers in his life and is wondering if he has made the right decisions. Do you both have children?