I lost my wife to cancer in 2007 and started to drink again. I have to children 4 & 9 that are grandchildren I'm trying to raise on my own with 2 jobs. Due to the cancer and doctor bills I have lost every thing to the banks. I have met a wonderful Lady that has become my close friend over the last 6 months. She said there will never be a relationship just friendship. I have fallen in love with her and I have been praying that she would feel the same and show me that there can be a relationship and marriage later. She is a good Christian Lady and a firm believer i God. She is saying that I should not feel this way I get depressed when not with her. I pray to God that she will turn to me for her soul mate. She has not had it easy. I pray all the time and read the bible several times a day. I need one of Gods Miracles in this and ask for in prayer. I have come to the point of giving up on her and God. MY losses have been great. And I don't want to lose anymore So please pray for me and my children and for this to work out in my life.

May God bless each of you.

***I pray that you never give up on God. You can give up on a lot of things in life. People, and things on this earth may let you down. God has never left you, nor forsaken you. A lot of times we leave him behind, but he never leaves us!!!

***I pray that peace comes to your life. I pray that the Lord leads you, in the way he would have you to go. I pray for God's will in your life to happen. I pray this in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!

Heavenly Father we come to give You Thanksgiving and Lord we ask that you PLEASE touch this man and show him just what you want him to do. And Lord show him that you will guide him in the direction you want him to go. Show him your Will Lord we love and Thank You in Jesus Name.Amen and Amen

Dear Heavenly Father, Please be with this man as he deals with rejection from a deal lady that he feels so greatly is the person to bring joy back into his life. Please help him to turn to you and your word for answers. Help he to have patience in the relationship with this lady. Also, Please guide her to him if it is meant to be. May they find joy and pleasure from each other. Please touch his heart that he may never turn away from you but only grow stronger in his faith. For this we pray in Jesus name. AMEN

Dave,

I pray that God will grant you peace and love, that your soul that has suffered great loses will be consoled. I pray that you will find love in life, and realize that you are loved no matter what by God and by people around you.

Dear Dave, don't give up because God is great and he loves you and wants you happy. Maybe this is not the right time for you to have a relationship; it seems like you need to work on your self in order to give your self to someone else. You need to feel secure and be sure that God does work miracles. If you don't show that you are certain of yourself than this lady will never feel secure next to you. If you believe in God and show it with actions than God's Love will bring the people around you closer to you. You will not feel rejected. Build your self up with God's teaching and you will have a lot to offer to the ones around you. Make God number one in your life, worry more about yourself and being a better person and you will attract others to you. Rest in God. May God bring peace to your heart and mind. And may he give you wisdom to continue your journey. Let Go and Let GOD. May God bless you today and always.

Dear Dave, I agree with luluguz.

***I believe that confident, healthy, and secure people; attract confident, healthy, and secure people. The same is true with unconfident, unhealthy, and insecure people attract the same type of people. If your unhappy in where you are, you will show it! As why would a healthy, and happy person want to be with a unhealthy, and unhappy person? It don't make since, does it?

***If you jump into a relationship without being healthy, happy, or out of the fear of being alone; chances are your relationship will end in disaster. If it does not end in disaster, I guess it would be like winning the lottery. (Slim to none chances.) If you show that you are unhappy, or desperate to have someone, or afraid of being alone, you will attract an unhealthy person. Who knows what there unhealthy problems could be?

***Many times these type(s) of relationships do not work out, as either both parties remain unheathy, or only one person gets healthy. In either of those situations, the marriage does have a high failure rate. If you think the failure of just one previous relationship is agonizing, imagine going through this several times more? Even if you did decide that you was just going to have to settle for this unhealthy person, how happy are you going to be with that? You could decide to do this, to prevent you from being alone, and you don't have much hope for a better marriage, or future!!! Don't settle! Choose to get healthy, and happy with where you are now (which is alone.)!!!

***You would be amazed at the difference you would see, if you could just work on the problems that you've seen in your past relationships, and at the same time work on being happy in where you are right now. (Which is by yourself.) When you decide to be happy with the present, other people will see it, and healthy people will be drawn to you. It will be a win win situation for both you, and your spouse!!!

***Anyway, I hope that you do not feel that I am cutting you down. I would just like to help you get out of the rut, and sometimes it means digging down deep to do it.

***I pray that you find true happiness, and long term love. I pray that you do what you need to do, to get it right! I pray that you do not jump into anything, out of fear of being alone, or for any other wrong reason. I pray that you see that jumping into things, will only mean a broken heart, a bad relationship, more of the same that you are feeling now!!! I pray that you are drawn closer to the Lord! I pray that you see that when you are in God's will, that your life is 100% better!!! I pray this ALL, and in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!

Precious Savior, Thank You for this day, it's beauty and it's light. Thank You for Dave's chance to begin again. Please free Dave from the limitations of yesterday. May his focus become more fully a reflection of Your glory, LORD Jesus.
Please give Dave strength and compassion, and courage and wisdom. May Dave recognize the good that is available everywhere. May Dave be, this day, and every day an instrument of Your love and healing. Lead him into gentle pastures, dear LORD.
Dear LORD, please give Dave deep peace that he might serve You most deeply.
Amen and Amen

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