I have been single for some years, happily in many ways. I have a wonderful home, friends, pets, orchids in the patio. But, I am a natural and whole woman and I wish for a mate since I believe and feel deeply, it is my destiny to be passionately mated. I do not know how to find this person. I have tried the personals, I do live in a Latin country where fidelity is not valued and do not date the local men. I wish to somehow, in the universe, in the constellations, in the world, locate my soul mate. It is my desire to make someone happy as well as capture joy for myself. I need your help in prayers.

I know you want to find the right soul mate...but that is where you might be going wrong. I believe that you will meet your soul mate, but you cannot look for them. You will find them in time, do not worry. When you keep looking, is when you might pass them by. I have hope for you and I know you will find that perfect person, to love and be with the rest of your life. I will pray for you and your situation, stay strong and don't look too hard, he will find you. My blessings-

-Jess

thank you Jess your reply meant the world to me, as this Christmas has been difficult for me. I am going through many emotional tornados. I have my little pets for love and warmth, however. You are right. One must turn over the search to God, I believe. Thank you for confirming that, and most of all, for caring enough to send the reply.

yes i believe you've got to leave this one up to god people come into your life for a reason strangely enough youll find love in places you least expect. i also am a believer of destiny and fate god has that special some one picked out for you already dont drive yourself crazy looking for love..i know what its like to be alone on the holidays im in New York and my family lives on the west coast i couldnt afford a plane ticket to see them this year so i am stuck at home.. but you've got to make the best of it and stay positive....godbless...music is love