I am feeling a bit angry......

hope · #1 (**permalink**) 01-31-2008, 03:36 PM

I am asking for prayer from all you wonderful people. I am presently going through a divorce due to my husband having affairs but finally left because of this affair. We have been separated two years and after Jim(husband) told me he wasn't seeing her I found he has actually been living with ever since he moved out. However, I am asking for prayer to help me with alleviating my anger towards Jim and Maria (the woman). I really don't like feeling this way even if it is at times. I want to forgive and move on and trust in Jesus that His will be done for my boys and I. Please pray for me that I gain the strength to overcome this anger. Love you all

hope4me · #2 (**permalink**) 01-31-2008, 04:10 PM

Hope you are in my prayers. You are heading in the right direction, keep asking in prayers and you shall be heard. Just be strong and don't allow the evil to take over. Stay focused on the good things. Be positive, have hope, and believe in our heavenly father. God Bless
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Lord Jesus, there is anger in my heart and I cannot root it out.
I know that I should calm down and offer the hurt and disappointment to You
but my emotion is running away with me.
Help me to overcome this weakness and give me peace of heart as well as mind.
Let me learn from this experience and grow into a better human being. Amen.

christain737 · #3 (**permalink**) 01-31-2008, 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by hope

I am asking for prayer from all you wonderful people. I am presently going through a divorce due to my husband having affairs but finally left because of this affair. We have been separated two years and after Jim(husband) told me he wasn't seeing her I found he has actually been living with ever since he moved out. However, I am asking for prayer to help me with alleviating my anger towards Jim and Maria (the woman). I really don't like feeling this way even if it is at times. I want to forgive and move on and trust in Jesus that His will be done for my boys and I. Please pray for me that I gain the strength to overcome this anger. Love you all

Hope, we are flesh and blood and GOD created us with emotions. Personally, I would kind of think you had a few loose screws OR you didn't REALLY love your husband if you just moved on as if life is nothing but a bowl of cherries. I have been there and done that! Just a variation of the same theme. Forgiveness may be one of the toughest, if not THEE toughest command between us and Eternal Life. I am speaking from experience. When something this deep happens to us, it catapults us into our own personal 9.1.1. Psychologists have done longitudinal studies on people who are divorced and over and over again, studies show that divorced people exhibit behaviours much deeper than an actual DEATH in the family. Separation and divorce are monumental issues to bounce back from. You are allowed to feel something. Father, I stand in the gap for Hope and Jim, as well as the interloper, Maria. You designed marriage to be forever and You are against divorce. Father, in Jesus name, make a way for Hope and Jim to reunite the fire that was there when they first met. Fan the flames of desire that they both had when they placed the wedding bands on their fingers. This seems impossible to Hope, but to You it is nothing to perform. Make a way when the way seems lost. Create a divine intervention to remove Marie from their marriage. Dash every hope that Jim had with this woman because she is not the one You ordained to be with Jim. Hope is his wife in the world's eyes and in yours. Let forgiveness heal them both and let their love for one another eclipse Maria and her relationship with Jim. Let this marriage be what YOU meant for it to be, in Jesus mighty name we pray. Hope, believe and trust with every fiber of your being. Miracles are activated by your faith. I love you in Christ Jesus.

frank · #4 (**permalink**) 01-31-2008, 07:33 PM

Dear Hope:

Betrayal is a terrible thing. Being betrayed can bring the most evil and un-G-dly feelings out of the person who's been betrayed. Your prayer for an elimination of the anger you feel towards those who've betrayed you and your sons will not be effective, however, unless you simultaneously ask G-d to allow you to forgive them.

I know that this seems counterintuitive at first- after all you've been betrayed, lied to, treated cruelly, and probably many other things that I'm not even aware of. You may ask: "I can understand praying not to be angry, but why pray to forgive?"

You must forgive because the anger is only a symptom- the root cause is that you have not forgiven. Forgive and the anger you feel will evaporate in a nanosecond.

G-d please allow Hope to forgive these two people who have treated her cruelly and wronged her terribly. Watch over Hope and her children and shield them from all evil and wickedness. Amen

odiear3rd · #5 (**permalink**) 01-31-2008, 07:35 PM

I Pray that in time your heart will begin to heal. We will keep you in our Prayers. The best medicine for your hurt is to start Praising God when these feelings of anger creep in. Thats easier said than done. God will inhabit His Praises. God Bless you for asking for Prayer. ODIE

Land-Of-Fire · #6 (**permalink**) 02-01-2008, 02:25 AM

Dear Hope, i am so sorry ...... In a time such as this is when you want to allow the Lord Jesus to hold you so, and you hold Him back. Cry in His arms.

I have lifted you up to Him.

christain737 · #7 (**permalink**) 02-01-2008, 03:47 PM

Hope,
We are still praying, OK? We have some amazing Intercessors who have such deep love and conviction for the Lord. Remember, Hope:
"The effectual, fervent prayers of a "righteous" man availeth much".
Stay strong in the Lord, Who is your source in times of trouble. Read the Word daily, ESPECIALLY when you DON'T want to. The Lord will reveal Himself to you in those pages. We love you In Christ, our Redeemer, and we still are praying for Jim and Maria.

hope · #8 (**permalink**) 02-01-2008, 09:07 PM

Thank you all of you for these prayers and loving words. I am weeping right now because I feel so loved by all of you and your words ring so true. God is so good. A big hug from myself and my boys

#9 (**permalink**) 02-02-2008, 02:22 AM

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Originally Posted by hope

I am asking for prayer from all you wonderful people. I am presently going through a divorce due to my husband having affairs but finally left because of this affair. We have been separated two years and after Jim(husband) told me he wasn't seeing her I found he has actually been living with ever since he moved out. However, I am asking for prayer to help me with alleviating my anger towards Jim and Maria (the woman). I really don't like feeling this way even if it is at times. I want to forgive and move on and trust in Jesus that His will be done for my boys and I. Please pray for me that I gain the strength to overcome this anger. Love you all

i will be praying for you i am so sorry about you husband they all are trash thats why god made us cause we are so much better than them!!! im pretty much in you r same shoes i know it hurts to think why cant he love me as much as her im his wife the mother of his children, but they dont care all they care about is there pennis!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! theay have nothing better to do, and we have better things to do...........thats all thats on ther minds i belive that hell is gona be full of men...... they dont care for nothing but themselfs and there pennis they have no heart after 30 years i have found that out..i hate to say it i could tell you some stuff that would make the hair sand on your head but theres not enough time to do so or no words to describe the way that i have been done byhim ,,,but jesus said that where 1or 2 pray and agree he will be in the mist and he would here and answer our prayers so lets pray and agree togather that god will move for us as well as all the other woman that suffer the same pain that we go threw on a daily basses ,,,rember that god loves you and us all and keep the faith he said if you take one steep he would take 2 and i kow that is reali dont know you but god knows us both and i love you and pray for you its just that im so far from god its so hard to get back to where i was ...rember me and you are much better than that man so hold your head up and hang in there god will move oxoxoxoxin jesus name i pray

christain737 · #10 (**permalink**) 02-02-2008, 11:30 AM

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Thank you all of you for these prayers and loving words. I am weeping right now because I feel so loved by all of you and your words ring so true. God is so good. A big hug from myself and my boys

Hope, How's things goin' for you right now as you are reading. I have
been thinking about you, Hope. Well, no, not me..I think the Holy Spirit is prompting me. Firstly, NEVER think that your issue is not as important as other issues that we pray for. If GOD talks about nature and the universe, it shows that EVERYTHING is so important to Him that HE deeply desires you to call on Him. Sometimes in my mind, I picture Him watching us going through the purifying fire and we desperately...as if our very LIFe hangs in the balance...we desperately reach out to ANYBODY and EVERYBODY who has the time of day, and GOD is watching with tears flowing down His face wondering, " How bad is it going to get before they talk to ME?" You see, Hope, even for a substantial number of CHristians, GOD is the very LAST resort when HE should always be our first inclination to go to . I cannot ever say enough about the majority of the Intercessors and some that just pass by to say a word or two on this site. I don't know all of them, but I wish I could meet all of them. Their personal experiences are what speaks back to you through the voice of GOD. Sometimes satan likes to jump in and grab all of GOD's attention and move GOD's Children off the path of righteousness and back onto the beaten track to this lost and dying world. Anyway, Hope, this is hard to explain, but you remember those stories about 9.1.1. when people said they worked there, but weren't there when 9.1.1. happened. I remembered the girl who was fired the day just prior to 9.1.1. and and she inconsolable with grief because she was the sole source of income for her family. She was positive that the Lord did it. Another person took a vacation because he was a workaholic and his family was suffering. His boss told him to take a vacation and he did...just prior to 9.1.1.....and on and on and on. Honey, there are things you can't see in the BIG picture that GOD has seen all along. Did you know GOD uses our enemies to move us in a different direction from where we're at because we are creatures of habit. We do NOT LIKE CHANGE! We can't presume to speak for GOD, perish the thought! Well, can we say that since you have such a BIG, soft, tender heart, the Lord knew that Jim would cause you to walk away from your relationship with GOD had he stayed? Does he have as strong a relationship with the Lord as you do, Hope? But you still love him, or you wouldn't feel so sad. What blows my mind about you, Hope, is that you obviously love GOD more because here you are. Do you believe that GOD doesn't orchestrate and allow things or removes His hand for NO reason. He has a reason and He KNOWS why you are going through this. Stay faithful and remember WHO you are in Christ and in Whom you serve, Hope. GOD is faithful. You remain faithful to Him, too. I love you, Hope. Very much in Christ Jesus. All of the Intercessors do. (And remember, we have many "visitors, too.")

R E V E L A T I O N 12 : 11
" I am an OVERCOMER and I overcome by the BLOOD of the LAMB
and the word of my testimony."
" I am an OVERCOMER"

J A M E S 4 : 7
"I am submitted to GOD and the devil flees from me becasue
I resist him in the name of Jesus."

P S A L M 119 : 89
"The Word of GOD is forever settled in Heaven. Therefore, I establish His Word upon this earth."

J A M E S 1 : 22
"I am a doer of the Word of GOD and blessed in my deeds. I am happy in those things that I do because I am a doer of the WORD."

PSALMS/ PROVERBS
"No evil will befall me neither shall any plague come nigh my dwelling. For the Lord has given His angels charge over me and they keep me in all my ways, and in my pathway is life and there is no death."

Peace of GOD remain with you, Hope. No matter what you see with your eyes or understand through a human mind, it doesn't matter, we all love you and want you to remember GOD and His tears.