Trying to find new soulmate similar to one who died

Surak · #1 (**permalink**) 02-07-2008, 06:53 PM

My soulmate died two years ago from respiratory failure. She had been wheelchair-bound and even had a slight facial deformity, but I loved her for her Inner person. And because she loved me not for my status but loved me for just me, if you know what I mean. Since then,I have been trying to find a Similar-type soulmate, but no luck. Since I am used to having a Soulmate who is handicapped, so I try to find another woman in similar condition. There used to be a website specializing in handicapped people for matchmaking, but it has Discontinued. Can you direct me to any such group? Also, any handicapped woman, feel free to pm me. In Jesus name, amen.

odiear3rd · #2 (**permalink**) 02-08-2008, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Surak

My soulmate died two years ago from respiratory failure. She had been wheelchair-bound and even had a slight facial deformity, but I loved her for her Inner person. And because she loved me not for my status but loved me for just me, if you know what I mean. Since then,I have been trying to find a Similar-type soulmate, but no luck. Since I am used to having a Soulmate who is handicapped, so I try to find another woman in similar condition. There used to be a website specializing in handicapped people for matchmaking, but it has Discontinued. Can you direct me to any such group? Also, any handicapped woman, feel free to pm me. In Jesus name, amen.

I have the perfect soulmate for you. His name is Jesus Christ. You need Him in your life. He will sent you the right person in your life. So my Prayer is you give your all to Him and let Him Bless you. God Bless you. ODIE

christain737 · #3 (**permalink**) 02-09-2008, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Surak

My soulmate died two years ago from respiratory failure. She had been wheelchair-bound and even had a slight facial deformity, but I loved her for her Inner person. And because she loved me not for my status but loved me for just me, if you know what I mean. Since then,I have been trying to find a Similar-type soulmate, but no luck. Since I am used to having a Soulmate who is handicapped, so I try to find another woman in similar condition. There used to be a website specializing in handicapped people for matchmaking, but it has Discontinued. Can you direct me to any such group? Also, any handicapped woman, feel free to pm me. In Jesus name, amen.

Greetings, Surak.
Fortunately, GOD has created every human very different from one another, including identical twins. Was your "soulmate" your wife? Did you marry her? I ask because our Father designed marriage and it is ONLY in marriage where a man and woman may share every intimate aspect of themselves with each other. It is an extremely sacred bond in the eyes of our GOD, because it is symbolic of the SAME union with Jesus Christ, our Saviour and Deliverer, and HIS Church. Living and seeking a relationship with a woman OUTSIDE the bonds of Holy Matrimony is a sin. Are you a bourn again Believer who has been baptized in water? Do you believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of the One TRUE GOD ("I AM GOD, and there is none beside ME.") If you have done all of these things and know that Jesus Christ died on the cross for the sins of the world and was raised again on the third day to sit at the right hand of HIS Father, then any and all relationships that you pursue outside the bonds of marriage WILL fail. Don't get mad at me for saying that, Friend. I am just the MESSENGER. I am responsible to let you know that, but you also were created with a FREE will to accept or reject the Word of GOD. My prayer for you is the same as ODIE's. I stand in agreement with Odie that the One soulmate you are seeking be the Son of the One TRUE GOD, Jesus Christ, the Saviour and Deliverer of the world. Father, in Jesus Name, we ask that You surround this Friend with Your love and great compassion. Holy Spirit, we ask that this Friend will be compelled in his spirit to seek TRUTH and RIGHTEOUSNESS. Grant supernatural wisdom so that he will know his ONE and ONLY TRUE source of joy and completeness in his life is Jesus Christ. We ask these things believing that You are a GOD of MIRACLES. Friend, we ask that if you have a BIBLE in your possession, please read it and find out about the GOD who is full of love and compassion for each and every one of us. We love you very much in Christ Jesus.

Lynda · #4 (**permalink**) 02-09-2008, 12:53 PM

I agree with Odie and Christian. The most rewarding soulmate you will ever have find is Jesus. After all he created you. Who better to know all of your needs. Put your future in the Lord's hands.Lord we pray that this friend develop a thirst and hunger for your word. I know that by the power of your spirit all things are possible and I pray that you draw this person closer to you. " Your faith should not be in the wisdom of men but in the power of God." 1 Corinthians 2:5

Surak · #5 (**permalink**) 02-09-2008, 06:56 PM

To answer Christian737, NO, I did NOT commit fornication, if that's what you meant by your accusation of a relationship outside the bounds of matrimony. I don't know what you gave you that impression.

christain737 · #6 (**permalink**) 03-03-2008, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Surak

To answer Christian737, NO, I did NOT commit fornication, if that's what you meant by your accusation of a relationship outside the bounds of matrimony. I don't know what you gave you that impression.

Do I hear "anger" in your words, Friend?
Did you ever see the word "fornication" in anything I wrote? By the way, why is fornication on your mind? It never entered MY mind. Why yours???? The reason you "DON'T KNOW WHAT GAVE ME THAT IMPRESSION," is because "fornication" never entered my mind. But let's just say you were doing such a vile and digusting thing to a physically challenged woman, who am I to stand in judgement of your sin? I also sin, Brother. GOD alone is our Righteous Judge and it is He Who said, "Judge not, lest ye be judged by the same measure to which you have judged another." Do you know of this passage in GOD's Word, Surak? This is why I do not tempt the Lord's anger by judging my fellow man. May GOD's Peace abide within your Spirit and the Love of the One TRUE GOD surround You. Let GOD's perfect will be done in your request.

kweig · #7 (**permalink**) 03-04-2008, 02:05 PM

I wanted to bring a different view to Surak, and his situation. Please just ponder what I am going to say to you, and do not immediately say no I will not consider it. Please consider the following: As a women I would not even consider stepping into a relationship with a man who wanted me to try to fill a previous, and deceased wife's shoe. Also, I do not think it would be fair to anyone to be put into the position of trying to do this. Please consider that your love that you had for her cannot be replaced by anyone. If I were in your shoe's I think that I would continue working on myself to get over her death, and until you are completely over her, I would not attept to date. As this will only end in heart ache, as no one wants to be over shadowed by another person. Hopefully you will put some thought into what I've said!

#8 (**permalink**) 03-04-2008, 03:11 PM

I agree with you. I am a woman too, and I would never want to be a mere shadow of someone you loved better than me. Sorry.

ZephThree17 · #9 (**permalink**) 03-04-2008, 06:17 PM

Pour out Your Spirit upon Surak and make Your words known unto him. (Proverbs 1:23)
Surak desires to know Your will, and he delights to do Your will.
Help Surak to have the same attitude that exists in You, Christ Jesus, our LORD, to be able to say to the Father, "Your will be done" (Luke 22:42)
Thank You for excepting Surak into Your family; You have stated that whoever does the will of Your Father in heaven is Your brother, sister and mother. (Matthew 12:50)

Help Surak to leave things in Your hands, LORD, especially when there is nothing else he can do about a given situation. Righteous Father, work all things after the counsel of Your
purpose and Your will. May Surak know that it is Your will, LORD, that he be found to the praise of Your glory because he has trusted in You. (Ephesians 1:4-14)

Thank You for Your Word LORD, may it be a light unto Surak's path and a lamp unto his feet. (Psalms 119:105)
Teach Surak to study Your Word so that he can show himself approved unto You, a workman who never needs to be ashamed because he has learned to divide Your Word rightly. (2 Timothy 2:15)
May Surak search Your the Scriptures daily to discover Your Truth and direction for his life. May Your Word not depart out of Surak's mouth, LORD. May Surak meditate upon it day and night so he will learn to walk in Your Word daily. When this becomes a reality in his life, LORD Jesus Christ, You will make Surak's way prosperous.
Your wonderful word makes Surak wise unto salvation. May it always have free course in his life.
Your Word is like the rain and the snow that come forth from heaven and do not return, but they water and sustain the earth. Let the water of Your Word cleanse Surak, Sustain Surak, and it will not return to You void. It will accomplish all that You please in Surak's life. Hallelujah!
Let Your Word give life to Surak because it is the Word of Life. Give Surak the grace Dear LORD, to be both a doer and keeper of Your Word. (1 John 2:5)

"Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for He hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee." (Hebrews 13:5)

LORD Jesus Christ, thank You for Your promise that You will be with us forever. (Hebrews 13:5)
You have promised not leave us comfortless, but have sent Your Spirit to be with us.
He is the Spirit of Truth whom the world cannot receive, because the world does not see Him or know Him. (John 14:16-18)

Teach Surak to pray when he feels alone. Teach him to remember that You are always there.
Be to Surak - his High Priest, because You do understand. Help Surak to hold fast to his profession in spite of lonliness, realizing, LORD, that You are touched with the feeling of his infirmities. You were tempted to feel alone, but You turned to the throne of grace. Help Surak to remember that he will find mercy, comfort and grace there also, to help in his time of need. (Psalms 119:5)

Everyone forsook You and fled, LORD Jesus, but You did not despair. (Mark 14:50)
I know You understand how Surak feels. It is so wonderful for Surak to be able to walk with You. Let all lonliness that the enemy brings be gone from Surak, LORD. Tear down any thought strongholds of lonliness as we pray now.

May Surak's fellowship be with You, Righteous Father, and with Your SON, Jesus Christ. Help Surak always to remember this truth so that his joy may be full. (1 John 1:3,4)
How we praise You and thank You, Righteous Father in heaven! hallelujah!
Thank You for lifting lonliness from Surak. its clouds have been dissapated by the sunshine of Your love. Surak need never to allow lonliness to darken his path again! Hallelujah! Amen and Amen