My words for your struggles- Reply In relationships, there are sometimes many things that others can't see...problems..and other emotions, or wants, etc. that they may be waiting for and think might not happen. I feel bad on both parts of this, but sometimes you have to wait it out and give it one more chance. I don't know quite what to say, or what kind of advice I can give, because I do not have kids and I am not married, although I am in a relationship. Is she willing to give their relationship another chance? Starting over everything, new, is good sometimes. I have had my thought's and feelings and then I realize that it is not them who have the problems sometimes. I believe I have my own insecurities and wants in life, but sharing that with someone you care about and who understands you, is something very special. Communication is key in relationships. They should sit down and talk, if they haven't already, and really say what is on each other's minds, and what they can do to help stay together and make it work, if they are both willing to do so. I know they are together for a reason, and I am sure they do still love each other. God will show them which way to go and what they need to do. I believe having kids together is a gift from God as well. I hope they give one another a chance to reunite and become best-friends again, like in the beginning. I send them, and you my blessings, I know what is right will happen and friends will always be together.. God Bless
-Jess |