Dear Friend, there are never coincidences only God's hand orchestrating things.
Welcome! And if you have any questions ask away....
I also have read some of your posts.... forgiving unfaithfulness is also a process.... i have heard that the pain lingers and trust is not easily given in this regard.... Yet i am not an expert, but if i were you i would seek for counsel from other loving women who have forgiven their husbands.
I hope you can realize that it is normal to feel the pain for a while.... and just be careful to not place a heavy burden on your loved one. After all we have all been unfaithful to Jesus, even those of us who have known Him for a while keep having to let go of this idol, that idol.....
But ultimately, i suppose that for those who desire to forgive their unfaithful spouses, in the end they have to be the bigger persons... which makes them feel like a parent in some sense.... and ultimately our only faithful spouse is our God.... perhaps there is great comfort knowing that we can turn to Him for true reliance.
__________________ Put on the full armor of God, that you may be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. (Ephesians 6:11-12) |