I thank everyone for the prayer support that you are giving me! Depending on God's will for my life, and Tom's, I may need to lean on you alittle more than I have. Both of us are trying hard, but it is not enough to try hard; you have to be a christian, and want to follow the Bible. I cannot keep going on this roller coaster of (I want you, now I don't want you; I'll compromise, I won't compromise; I will be with you forever, I want a divorce.) I believe that Tom has good intentions, it's just that he has not had a foundation for God, or this marriage. Continue to pray for him, as I do see improvements. Pray that this is just not short lived, that these are permanent changes. If this does not work out, I'll probably need to lean on you for awhile for prayer. I thank you again for each time you took out of your day to pray! With all my heart, kweig!!!