Dear nanny chrissy, I pray that the Lord draws each of you closer to him. When you are doing God's will, and living according to the Bible, your hole life seems to go better! I pray that you learn to stop, look, and listen for the Lord's voice. (Many times our own wants, and needs will cause the Lord's voice to become harder to hear.) I pray the Holy Spirit began to do a work in your life. I pray that it be the Holy Spirits voice speaking through you, rather than what you think that you should say; when dealing with your husband! I pray that you are given the right dosage of patience, and understanding while trying to work through this! I pray this in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!