Originally Posted by Seattlegrl

I'm at the end of my rope and don't know what to do. My husband of 8 years is addicted to drugs, crack I think. I have prayed and cried and prayed and cried some more. I'm surprised I even have any tears left to fall. He has ruined our finances, lost his job and even pawned both our wedding rings. He lies to me and steals from our family. Today I found a check missing from my personal bank account check book. We are surviving on my income alone, which is not much, we have no health benefits so rehab is out of the question. I don't know if he would go anyway. I haven't had anyone to talk to about this as I am too embarrassed to involve my family. I'm not expecting anyone to provide me with a magical answer. Some extra prayers and maybe some moral support would be great.