Just reading your post, I can tell you that you are in "lust". You both are looking at the outside "physical" characteristics of each other. You are not IN love. There is far, far more to love than what's written here. Go to Proverbs 31 and read about what a "wife" should possess. I don't believe enough time has transpired for actual Christlike...YES, Christlike love to occur. A marriage will not succeed without GOD in it. What you feel is from your "raw" emotions. Do not go "exclusively" on emotion and physical appearance. You will be deeply DISAPPOINTED. Re-assess everything on a different plane. Counsel with a church Pastor and see if you both can be a married couple.