It is not for us to question the will of GOD. we know that GOD wishes for no man to perish. We cannot get used to blaming GOD for every little thing that doesn't go EXACTLY the way we have it planned in our heads. That means GOD answers prayer according our plans. A man plans his steps, but the Lord directs his path. GOD created us for His pleasure and sent His only Son to die on the cross to redeem us from our own sin. No one will or can ever convince me that He is out to cause misery in my life because I can't MAKE Him do what I want Him to do and exactly the way I want it. That's EXACTLY why He is GOD and we are not. GOD is our little Jeannie in a bottle for every little thing that comes up, but ask yourself truthfully, how often are you prostrate on the ground thanking and worshipping Him just for who He is? Now, how often do you ask Him for this and that and get mad when it isn't done just like you want it. We are all a mess! Apart from GOD, we are nothing. Father, In Jesus name, grant this Friend revelation and saving knowledge through the Holy Spirit. Help him to be aware that You are not just here to make our lives a bowl of cherries and that sacrifice and OBEDIENCE to Your Word are also required. We thank You for all that You will perform in this situation. Amen and Amen!