you sound like your really in love with her if youve both been faithfull then what is she unshure about? i know its very difficult to be in a serious relationship it takes more then just love to make it work, youve got to love some one no matter what good times and bad, ups and downs and everything in between. and i think the most important thing is communication if you all dont express the feeling you have even if it may hurt or bother our mate. sometimes the truth hurts but its better then a lie.. my prayers go out to your marriage and may god bless you both....music is love