I have been a christian man for many years but have had a problem with anger, I have recently got on Meds for this and they seem to be working but after 19 years of marriage my wife says she has had enough.
I ask for prayer for the Lord to work in my marriage and my wifes heart to find a way to try and give this another try, we have 3 children 17, 15, and 8.
but she seems to have her mind made up that no matter what happens, she is going through with the divorce, and if we get back together it will be after it is final. We are still living together at the present time but that seems to be getting more difficult everyday, mainly because I keep getting in the way of Gods work, How can I still love my wife but let her go at the same time and not fight for my marriage, I feel that God wants me to be the man, husband, and father that he has commanded me to be, but it is hard to keep my hope and faith when I hear and see her going through with the divorce and not having second thoughts. We are both christians so that make it that much harder for me to understand how she can turn her back on us and what seems to me on God.