I pray for your marriage today, as I understand how you feel. I once did something that caused my relationship at that time to end, but then we ended up getting back together again. I am saying this because all of us make mistakes in life and regret things we do. I know that I am not perfect, no one is, and we are not meant to be. I know from you saying you both are strong Christians, and have been together for that many years and have also been faithful. That is so amazing and really a blessing. I think you two will work things out, God wants us to Love, Understand, and Forgive one another, and I know you both will have strength to start over new and have an everlasting love and life together. I thought at one point that I would not have a second chance, but when I was blessed with one, I really learned from what happened, and our relationship grew stronger. I put you both in my prayers and pray your marriage lasts forever and that you both have a wonderful life with God and each other.