yes i believe you've got to leave this one up to god people come into your life for a reason strangely enough youll find love in places you least expect. i also am a believer of destiny and fate god has that special some one picked out for you already dont drive yourself crazy looking for love..i know what its like to be alone on the holidays im in New York and my family lives on the west coast i couldnt afford a plane ticket to see them this year so i am stuck at home.. but you've got to make the best of it and stay positive....godbless...music is love