I feel your pain, and stress from that...only because my family is in the same situation. They both are have endless medical bills, as well as other finances, and living off of 401K. I have hope for them though, and I know I high hopes for them and I have Hope and Faith for you and yours as well. Know that You are being prayed for and people are hearing you and praying for you too. I feel your pain and I am sorry for any discomfort that you both are having. God Bless you, if I am online, feel free to contact me. I am here if you ever need someone to talk to, and Welcome to the site, you just made some new friends Stay Positive
-Jess