We can all be brought low by G-d when our actions displease him but, if you confess your sins against others and, more importantly, against G-d, you can redeem yourself in the eyes of the Lord- it doesnt mean that the path to redemption will be easy or fast- just means that it will be possible.

I have been brought low for my arrogance, pride, and ingratitude in the face of the many blessings that the Lord has bestowed on my. I'm now in the process of trying to redeem myself in the eyes of the Lord- my situation has the potential to be very grave but I still have peace of mind. I have a friend who has also been brought low by G-d for the many wicked things she has done to other in Her life. She has not sought forgiveness and has chose to blame others rather than repent and change Her life- she has no peace of mind and I fear that Her trials will become worse as time goes on.

I think that G-d gives you the peace of mind to Handel any burden He places on you if you ask him to. In any event I pray that G-d give your an indication of what He wants you to do in your situation and blesses your Husband with renewed faith. Amen.