Right now, my "boyfriend" and I have decided to take a step back, and re-evaluate things. We too have been intimate, and made the decision to stop doing that. And, it really has been hard. I was practically living with him, and I've given him his key back, and I don't stay there anymore. I do have a question though. I don't know if this is the devil or what, but I mean, we had the agreement to not be intimate with each other anymore, but we don't do ANYTHING. Like, he doesn't even hug me. And, I feel like there is nothing wrong with that. Its like, if its not all the way, then its nothing at all. I wish to show him physical affection, but, within whats right. And I honestly dont think that a hug, or a kiss is a bad thing. Especially when, we know what will not be happening. Its weird....like, I can't tell if he wants to be my "good buddy" or my boyfriend. Is that bad????