Dear Friend, i have prayed for you and your girlfriend.

This is a very difficult time and it seems to me that you are going through some spiritual warfare, in the form of depression perhaps. And this is understandable, the burden is heavy.

1. Just know that it is ok to get rest and sleep as much as you need whenever you are able to.
2. Try not to face this situation just by the two of you, if you are able to get possitive emotional support from close family members, this is the time to do it.
3. It would be great if you had the support of a church
4. Try to see if it is possible to find caring people who are willing to baby sit the children, in case of emergency
5. I have personally found that going to church 2 or 3 times a week was extrememly helpful, it kept me emotionally stable in times of adversity. Usually an edifying sunday service, plus mid week prayer meetings (even if at different churches).

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