HI Tara Ann, I have recently been married. My husband and I did live together prior to the wedding, but stopped being intimate 6months before the wedding and also went through married prep classes with our priest. To be honest I am very happy that we stopped being intimate. It just made me feel more as if God was really apart of our lives and that getting to know one another was the most important thing. My prayers go out to you and please know that the decision you made may have been difficult, but it will be worth it in the long run.