dear momthompson, hang in there because God hears you when you pray! I know the pain you are in is overwhelming. but god does care and he sees your pain and promises to be with you in the midst of the storm. cry out to god and he will show you that he cares. i dont know if you are a christian....meaning do you know christ personally? if not lets start there.. just say to him jesus i need you in my life, I need you to be lord of my life, come into my life and make me yours amen....its that simple ...now get on your knees and cry out to him ,tell him all your worries, all your burdons ,all your pain and ask him to save your husband , your marriage, your life.. he cares about you and your family ...he is the creator of familys ..it was his idea in fact he was there at your wedding and bound the two of you together!
So your prayers are not going unheard. dont look at what your husband is doing. pray for him and ask god to bring him to his knees and to pray for you!

God..I lift up momthompson ,,lift her up and set her heart on you and give her the desires of her heart..lord heal this marriage completely and teach her how to be the wife you want her to be for husband..take away all the pain and bitterness she feels and help her anger to not get in the way. Lord every time she talks to her husband let it be your words god that come out of her mouth. lord give her the right words and help her to only say what you want her to say and know when she should be silent. God show her how to win the heart of her husband once more and give her the knowledge to do her part in this marriage ...god build this house to be something it has never been and I pray that you god would become the center of this household and that you weld this husband and wife together and never let anyone or anything come between them ever again.....God I ask that you shake heaven and earth regarding this marriage. God I ask that you cut this relationship that her husband is haveing with another women right out of the picture ,crush it down God to the point that it never becomes a problem for them again. Lord convict her husband of how wrong it is for him to be in the relationship he is haveing outside his marriage, let him find no peace in it. Lord let his desire be towards his wife and his wife only...let him miss her lord to the point of crying for his wifes return ..turn this mans heart towards home and his wife and kids. Lord heal this mans waywardness and raise him up to be the daddy and husband he vowed to be. steer his heart like a water course back to his wife and children ..God wherever he is right now I ask for you to pour out your holy spirit on him and convict him in his heart of hearts to stop going in the direction he is headed. let him be understanding of his wifes needs and let her strive to meet his....guide this family towards reconciliation I pray in jesus name.amen