Your wife needs your prayers, I will not feel sorry for you. You are strong. You are God's chosen. Do you remember in the bible Jesus said, If they persecute you, it's only because they persecuted me first. Be the strength to lift your family up. Do not take verbal abuse from her. Discipline your daughter when she address you wrong. You must stand up in the name of God and take control of an unhealthy and ungodly household. Don't just lie there waiting to be kicked. Job or no Job, you are chosen and that in itself is reason to be proud. Your wife doesn't know any better. She walks with blinded eyes. It is your responsibility as her husband to guide her in Christ. If you try and it doesn't work. Try again. This is your family your talking about. She is only mad because she sees bills are backed up, she can't sleep at night. Just like you. She doesn't know where to vent her anger. That small part of you that wants to break free from this emotional prison, must stand up! God is behind you , lifting your head.