Hang in there brother gods not done with your marriage! let me start with if you dont know jesus simply say say to him now ....jesus come into my life,I want you to be lord of my life,I need your love in my life,I need you save me lord.If you did that you are his NOW! get on your knees and pray to him with all your heart pray to him,seek his help, ask him to do what you cant do and that is to save your life, your home , your marriage, your wife. ask him to show you how to win your wifes heart again. ask him to teach you how to be the husband you can be. When he brings your wife home dont just go back to the way you were ...ask him everyday to show you how to love your wife the way he intended EVERYDAY! dont relax and give up, ask him to be the center of your life and your marriage. If your doing things that you know are wrong and unpleaseing to god and your wife then ask him to deliver you from these habits. Go to church together if possible and if she doesnt want to go then you go alone but go..ask god to bring you to the right church. Follow god with all your heart give it all to him and he grant you the desires of your heart. read the bible and he will guide you.........PRAYER:O lord bring peace to my brothers breaking heart,calm him with your love watch over his life as he is seeking you to restore his marriage.I would ask lord to soften his wifes heart towards him and ask he would get another chance to do it right. I ask that you would cause her to miss him and that she would have your spirit poured out on her and let her see that her husband is sorry for his part in this and that he truly loves her. God I would ask that even his inlaws would have a change of heart and that she would be incouraged by them to try again. Lord place your hands of healing on this family and restore it completly and make it even better than before! In Jesus mighty name AMEN!