God can do all things. He will do above and beyound all that you think and even ask for.Stop trying step back and let him do what he needs to do. Your wife belongs to him not you he knows her inside and out and more than you he dsires all of her, and then he can give her back to you whole. his heart is broken too because he so longs for her. Sing praises always especially when you are feeling doubful. She to him he is the lover of your soul and will do all that you ask of him. keep singing and praising and believing and keep calling those things that are not as though they are. remember he is well pleased with our faith.