Thank you, "ibelieve4ever", Christian737, and Sandy19. You know what? After I asked for prayer. I began to think about how I would approach the subject with Tom. I said a prayer, and asked the Lord to lead me. I did speak to him about it, and he was very open to what I was saying! Praise the Lord! He said he did not want to hurt me, and he would help to comfort me if he made me feel uncomfortable! Also, he went to his cousins house last night. I get concerned about this as his cousin is a partier. Tom has never drank to access, but will drink a little. I would like to find christian friends who don't drink! Anyway, he told me that his cousin got really drunk last night, and nearly burned his apt. down from cooking, and then passing out. He said that he woke up to an apt. full of smoke!!! He told me that he could've died of smoke inhalation if he hadn't woke up when he did, as there were no smoke detectors! Maybe this was God, closing the door for Tom going over there to hang out! His cousin lives 3 hrs. away, and maybe he will just not go there are a regular basis! I just would hate to see Tom start walking the fence with the Lord. He is just starting to do better!!!

Keep us in your prayers!!! Thanks for the support to all!!!