Lizzy, I'm sorry this happened to you! I do not like to see a man, or a women treated this way! I just want you to go about way with your eye's open!!! I pray that you are strong enough to see your relationship for what it is! I pray that you look for patterns of meaness (abuse). It is abuse to just hold a person in fear of leaving when you know that you are just killing them!!! Unless their is a missing piece of the puzzle that I do not know about, I ask you to consider if the following is true, or will transpire...

It is my belief that he definetly knew he was leaving at lunch time. For him to sit there, and watch TV with you, and then pack, and leave after you left. Everything was deliberate, and was planned out to have this effect on you. If this were not true, then why would he sit, and watch TV with you, as if nothing was going to happen? He could have went to another room, or said he wanted to go for a walk, or been gone before you came home. Instead he chose to sit with you, as if nothing was going to happen, wait for you to leave, pack his stuff, and be gone!!! This is a sign of a coward!!! This is part of the control that he executes over you. He'll be calling you before long. You wait, and see. As he will want to hear how much you love him. How much you will bend over backwards to make him happy. He won't stop all contact, as he will want you to beg him to come back. etc. etc. etc. If none of what i'm telling you is true, then tell me what you did; that is so terrible, which forced him to leave you?!!! I do not believe that you did something! I just want you to think about what i've said!!!