Dear Looking2God, Please forward to your husband, all the prayers that are being prayed for him on this website. I pray that him knowing of all the people that are pulling for him, would be of some help to him!!! I really pray that he sticks it out, and gets some time under his belt before returning home. He will need this, in order to stay clean. If it comes down to him insisting on quitting this rehab program, you may want to consider telling him that he will not be able to stay with you. Maybe this will be enough to keep him in it? I do believe under certain circumstances that you have to pull out all his support lines to get his attention. One only does this under very difficult circumstances, and I do believe this is one of them!!! Have you ever thought of going to a support group to get support for what you are going through? You may want to consider this! Many times we focus on the person with the huge problem, and we fail to address everyone else's issues which are a result of the "trickle down effect". I am also concerned about your welfare, and how you are doing through all of this!!!

My prayer for this family... Praise your Holy Name that this husband has chosen to stick it out in rehab. Continue giving him the strength to fight this nasty habit!!! Guide all the medical providers who are helping him with this addiction. Help them to carry out the treatment plan which will help him be an overcomer!!! Give this wife the words to speak to her husband concerning his decision to stay, or leave rehab as this becomes an issue! Let her husband realize that she is doing, and saying things out of love for him! Give her the strength to do what she has to do to help her husband! Let her stand strong in the face of trouble! Let her be her husbands light at the end of the tunnel. Let your love shine through her!!! I pray this in the name of Jesus, Amen!!!