Dear Dipa, Back in December of '07, I was a walking, talking, bawling mess. The people at this site blessed, and comforted me. I am only returning this favor.

***I wanted to tell you that anytime you begin to doubt your marriage please come here, and ask for someone to lift you up in prayer. Tell them about your fears, and ask them to help calm them. It is better that you ask the people here, then to put pressure on your husband to come back to you!!! If he comes back on his own, and without pressure from you to do this; then things will be a lot better!!! If he comes back because of the pressure you put on him, things will not be good, as he will come back with a bad attitude towards you!!! Let him be the one to come back to you, without the pressure of you to do it!!!

***I am speaking to you from experience, as my husband came back due to the pressure that I put on him. He had a bad attitude towards me because it was not his choice to come back. This time I had left him alone, and really thought we'd get a divorce. This was when HE MADE UP HIS MIND that he wanted to be with me. He has since apologized, and says that he was sorry for not treating me good, and wants to treat me a lot better because I deserve it.

***Please listen to me. Anytime you have fears, come here for support, and prayer. Refrain from letting your husband know that you are scrutinizing his words. Just tell him that you are happy for whatever (such as that you are now on speaking terms). Try to be positive with him. There will be time to talk about the problems he caused later, after he makes up his mind that he wants this marriage!!! But, even then you must move very slowly, as if you bombard him with everything at once, he'll probably want to run from you!

***I left you another prayer on your posted prayer request. I'm am excited at your good news. You just wait, one day you will be on here praising God for what he is doing in your life!!! I am telling you, it is coming!!! Be patient, and wait on the Lord, as his timing is perfect!!! Love you in the Lord! Sincerely, kweig!!!