Originally Posted by invisiblewings

If he leaves you because you love God, then it is better that you know now instead of 20 years from now. And if he does leave, then God will surely bless you with the right man who will know enough to love you BECAUSE you love God more than you love him. Don't worry if you lose him. I just recently lost a man who was promising marriage but I never had sex with him, so after 6 months, he quit talking marriage and quit talking to me. I am GLAD we didn't have sex. It made the break up easier. A book called "Seductions Exposed" was very enlightening for me. Of all the sins we commit, the sexual sin is the only one where we become "one" with somebody. The book suggests that if a person has spirits on/in them, then the person who has sex with them is vulnerable to those spiritual influences. I pray that you can fully give your love to Jesus, to whom we are the bride. And I pray that God either changes this man's heart, or that HE sends you the right man. amen