05-05-2008, 05:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Unregistered  Right now, my "boyfriend" and I have decided to take a step back, and re-evaluate things. We too have been intimate, and made the decision to stop doing that. And, it really has been hard. I was practically living with him, and I've given him his key back, and I don't stay there anymore. I do have a question though. I don't know if this is the devil or what, but I mean, we had the agreement to not be intimate with each other anymore, but we don't do ANYTHING. Like, he doesn't even hug me. And, I feel like there is nothing wrong with that. Its like, if its not all the way, then its nothing at all. I wish to show him physical affection, but, within whats right. And I honestly dont think that a hug, or a kiss is a bad thing. Especially when, we know what will not be happening. Its weird....like, I can't tell if he wants to be my "good buddy" or my boyfriend. Is that bad???? | Your "REAL" question is: "What on earth is he thinking by acting like this? Is he trying to punish me becaue I don't want to give my body to someone who I have no clue will be my husband in the future or not?" You see, men need to have sex. Women need intimacy, love, commitment. You tell me if he is a little upset. But, that's where his respect for you should have taken over. I cannot tell you how much respect I have for women like you who put their foot down because they have respect for themselves and they know they honour GOD in doing so. The bible tells us very clearly that you are about to be very blessed for choosing righteousness over the fleeting things of this world. Remember: "What will a man profit if he gains the whole world and loses his soul?"  |